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People say that I am:
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i would have to say i am very honest open mind kind loving devoted big heart of gold sometime to much for my own good easy preson to talk to good listen romantic funny kick back type easy going and i am a woman that will say what on my mind im not scared to do that i am a woman that beleve of always being my self i dont like trying to be somthing i am not and the way i look at it if no one can handle who i am then they need to move on cause i won't change for no one cause i love the preson i am every one said i am very fun loving kind preson to be around i always make them feel easy when around me they know they can be them self and i will be cool with it
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Things that have bothered me:
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them lieing hideing thing behide my back end what we have together for not reason to do that or playing mindgames i am to dam old for that
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I am looking for:
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i guess what i am looking for in a partner and a friend is kind loving honest open mind big heart romantic devoted love to laught and have fun one that easy to talk with and know i could tell them anything i wanted to say and they would try and understand me and where i am coming from if it has anything to do with them
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My funniest life experience:
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when me and my sis was down in IOWA CITY with or mom that was in the hospital there to have cancer remove from her neck and we was staying in a room down there so we could be there for her and she wouldn't have to do it on her own and her dr call the room to let us know he need us up at mom room right away cause he need to talk to us about mom and that stuff so we hurry and jump in the car and head to the hospital then next thing we know the cop was behide us with his lights on and all so my sis thought maybe she was in his way so she move over to the other line so she could get out of his way but the funny thing is the cop fallow her over to the other line and she said to me i don't understand this cop cause i move out of his way and then he fallow me in to the other line so then she move back to the frist line she was in and so did he do the same thing and then she look at me and said sis i think his wanting me to pull over for some reason so she did that then he come up to the car and ask her if she knew what she has done wrong and she said no i don't know what i done worng and that when he told her she was speeding and ask for all the thing they always ask for and then he went back to the car and then he come back up to mom car that we had down there and said mama what was your hurry and that when my sis said to him about mom in the hospital and about the dr call us and want us up there right away and he said ok i understand so what i will do is just tell you to drive carefull and slow down and have a great day cause your mom don't need somthing happing bad two your guys and that could happen easy drive fast and she told him she would slow down and watch her speed and told him thanks for being understanding and to have a great day and he told us the same thing to have a great day and hope our mom get better but that was every funny time in our life down there we had lots of them down there but that the one that stay in my mind cause it was just funny that she didn't know he was wanting her and not anyone else
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Cool Movies:
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walk to rememeber last dance gameplan how to lose a man in 10 days wedding singer big daddy bad boys lots more
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My Favorite Groups are:
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i like all kinds of it
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I am looking for a personality like:
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to behonest i have to say my dad is the man that made me the woman i am today we use to have lot of good talks between me as i was goring up and always toke what my dad told me to heart so that why i am the woman i am today and i have to give the thanks out to my dad for who i am he done teach me right there few times im sure he thought i didn't hear a word he said but i hear every thing he said to me but you know how is it when your a kid and growing up you don't want to let them know that you beleve in what they say cause that just being a kid thought so any parnt that out there that feel that way keep in your mind they only act like they don't hear you but honesty they do hear what your saying so never give up cause you think it wasted of your time cause thir not hearing anything cause they are they just don't want you to know they are
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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the only thing i ever did in my life that i didn't ever want to do is when it come time that i couldn't take care of my mom that was slowly dieing of cancer and had to move her in to a nurseing home that was the wrose thing i will ever have to do in life cause my dream i wanted to give her so bad was the dream she had of staying in her own place till she toke her last breath but she got to where i couldn't do it anymore cause it was ware me out so bad doing it all on my own i did it for a year and 6 months put my life on hold and live it for my mom and my son cause i made sure he had every thing he need to when i was take care of my mom day and night i had to feed her and give her meds clean the apt do the dishs go lots of night on three hours of sleep but beleve me i wouldn't give it up for anything but the nurseing and her dr could see how is was running me down bad so they told me i need to put mom in the nursing home where they could do it easer cause they have more help there but i told them nope i will do it till it would kill me cause i wanted to give my mom her die wish but they over ride me on that and got it set up for her to go to the nursing home and then i call my sis and told her you better put behide you what ever your upset with mom about and come and see her or you will hate your self after we lose her cause they don't give her that much time to live so she come over to the hospital where the dr put her in till he could get something set up at a nurseing home cause lot of them wouldn't take her cause they was scared of every thing they had to do to her what i couldn't understand where they was come from cause they had been to school for all that stuff and i haven't still i jump right in ya the nurse teach me how to do lot of it but it wasnt hard to lean that for sure how to clean her tarack in her neck give her med in her feeding tub clean around that and clean ever tiem befor you put a feeding in there and then after ever time feeding would get done even after she went to the nurseing home i was there day and night when ever she need me so was my sis the nurseing home said they never had two daughter like us ever do as much as we did for are mom but the way i look at it she was there for us when we was growing up so it was are job to be there for her now when she need us and we was there up to her dieing day she passed away may 27 at one min after midnight it was a very had night for me i still miss her but i keep remember my self that now she in a better place now she not in pain all the time but there was lot of night and days i went with out sleep but i would do it all over for any other f ly one that need me like i have said lots of time i would never change a thing that i did for my loveing mother
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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i would be really willing to meet some one off here if i felt he was the one i was looking for to give it a shot to see where it would end up at and yes i have meet someone off the net and i would still be with him but he wanted diffent things in his life then i wanted in mine so we parted and are still friends to this day
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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i am 100% ready to start out as friend with someone and just let it take it own time in growing and see where it end up at
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My typical day:
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doing stuff around the apt that need done hunging out with my friends talking on the computer watching tv playing music playing games on the computer
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My Wish List Includes:
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the only thing that i would want to do in life is get lucky and teach my son the right road to take in life i have been trying to get him to hear what i am staying to him and for him to understand im not just telling him that stuff to be bossy in his life i just want to make sure he take that right road in life cause he is one hell of a smart kid and he could do anything in life he want to and hope he dose make something of him self cause like i said he has every thing it take to do that in life he just need to open his eyes and see it and grab hold and not let go but i do see in lot of ways my talks with him have done good and i just can keep on trying to get the other thing to open his eyes that one thing i will never do is give up on him that a mother job to stand by her sons or daughters always and forever a mother job and love is never a ending job that for sure the biggst thing you will ever do in life is be come a mom or a dad
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink.
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I Like Pets.
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Sometimes I like to travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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I Like Competitive Partners.
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Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
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My life is somewhat stressfull.
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I Don't Try to stay in Shape.
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I sometimes want to get married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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I Am as Stubborn Person.
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I Love going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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Sometimes it's important to have a clean house.
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