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People say that I am:
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My friends would say that I am very outgoing and spontaneous. They would say that I have a very sexual train of thought a lot of the time and love to laugh and make jokes. That I am very laid back and easy to get a long with so end up making friends every where I go. They would say I am very easy to talk to and trustworthy. They would say that I usually care more about making other people happy then myself and that sometimes I get a little to careless with it because I end up getting my own self in a rut. But in the negative some people would say I can get a little to self conscious about myself sometimes and that I do have drama that likes to follow me around every once in a while.
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Things that have bothered me:
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One thing I have noticed with people I have dated in the past is that they all had similarities and when I really narrowed it down I kept picking guys with the bad similarities of my ex's instead of the good qualities. I noticed that one thing really bothered me with guys I dated is they take me for granted and take my kindness as a weakness. I do everything possible to make them happy and the last few guys I have dated, I have gotten nothing but heart break in return.
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I am looking for:
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I want a man (yes I said man, not a boy) who is honest, and trustworthy. Someone who will not take any from me but knows how to dish it out too without hurting my feelings purposely. Someone fun and outgoing and always up to try something new. Someone who is willing to go out of there way for me becuase they know that I would always do it for them. I guess you could say my idea of a perfect guy/relationship would be someone who becomes my best friend and lover all at the same time.
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My funniest life experience:
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Well definitly not one of the funniest but most recent experience. I went to the Montel Williams show with a bunch of girlfriends and a few people from my friends work. One of the guys on the trip was someone I had just met and was only 17, which is way too young for me! but we got to the show and the people working there thought that we were boyfriend and girlfriend (I guess I look young for my age or he looks old) but they picked us up out of the back row seats that we were sitting in and asked us to sit front row (i guess they thought we were a cute couple) and there was a guy named Erik (a comedian) that comes out in the beginning of the show and tells jokes and plays games with the audience and gives away prizes like the montel williams lunch box I brought home.but Erik thought that the two good looking people sitting up front (me and the guy.duh) were a couple as well and while playing "the singing bee" the game where you have to finish the lyrics, the guy next to me started singing the whole song before Erik even asked any questions, so Erik made the guy stand up on stage, had me stand up on stage too and made this poor 17 year old sing "Hey There Delilah" to me in front of the whole audience. It was so funny and adorable but what was even funnier was Erik asking us how long we were together and me having to say that we had just met that day. Then to make it more fun the guy Erik asked for my number after the show. All in All it was a pretty fun time! My friends had a blast making fun of me for days!
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Cool Movies:
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A Lot Like Love, Cruel Intentions, Thirteen, The Notebook, Coyote Ugly, Empire Records, White Squall (hot boys!!!), A Bronx Tale, My Cousin Vinny, 8-Mile, You Got Served, Top Gun, Ferris Buellers Day Off, A Walk to Remember, Mallrats, Cry-baby, The Breakfast Club, Dazed and Confused, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, 16 Candles, Pretty in Pink, Despperado, The Crew, Once Upon A Time in Mexico, Goodfellas, The Labyrinth, Newsies (Christian Bale-damn he is HOT!), Dirty Dancing, Final Destinaton, Speed, Premonition, The Departed (or Anything with Leonardo DeCaprio,Full Metal Jacket,Rent, Steel Magnolias, all the Halloween movies, just to name a few, but there are so many more!
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I basically like everything other then really hard rock. I can deal with some of it and I have to be in the mood for it but usually not a big fan. Music is definitly a big part of my life. Its there whenever I need it.if that makes any sense!
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I am looking for a personality like:
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I am a pretty laid back person so I guess personality traits that I would want in a guy would be someone who is laid back, funny, can be himself around me whether his friends are around or not, and most importantly I dont like people who have a lot of drama.I know it can sometimes follow people around and thats fine but if your a drama king I will lose interest quick. I have definitly had my share of drama and really dont want anymore. I like a guy who is not stuck up or who only cares about looks, and money. Im more about getting to know the person and not the materialistic side of it. I am a real easy person to get a long with and whenever anyone needs a friend I am there to listen or help out in anyway possible. I am caring and loyal and think everyone diserves the same respect I would expect to get in return. I try to always have a smile on my face and make people laugh. I guess I just want someone who like me knows when to be serious but knows how to relax and have fun the rest of the time.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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I think I compromise way to much and I think sometimes thats what causes a lot of problems in my life because then the guy just thinks I will always let him be right and he starts relying on me to always make things easy for him, which in the end just makes it ten times harder for me to deal with.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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If I find someone who I can have a conversation with and who I feel isnt dangerous or crazy like all the things they warn you about when meeting people off line then yeah I would definitly take a chance.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I am just getting out of a relationship with someone but he has already moved on and although we are still friends and sometimes it makes it difficult I am ready to move on with my life and ready to find someone I am more compatible with.
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My typical day:
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My perfect date would be someone who going into the date isnt expecting anything other then to figure out whether the two of us could ever actually date each other or if we were better off friends, or neither, who knows.?
My perfect date would be someone who came to my door to pick me up, but there was no akward "hello." He would pick where we were going and surprise me, always up for surprises! If it was a date where we were going somewhere to eat, I wouldnt want anything to fancy.no use in trying to impress me (I am very laid back- especially when trying to get to know someone for the first time).If it was not a dinner/lunch date I would want him to pick something that was either a lot of fun like bowling or mini golf, or something he thinks that I had never done before (always up for trying new things) for example, something he is interested in. Like if the guy likes baseball lets go to a baseball game. just becuase it doesnt make it akward and its not so crowded/loud/or too one on one/you cant talk and get to know the person/ but also are not as nervous at the same time. Also, stuff like bowling and mini golf give you a chance to make a goof out of yourself and see how the other person reacts to it. I am the type of person who if im interested in the person i will let them know and they will get that "good night kiss" but if Im not into them ill usually tell them I will call them later or ask for them to call me later, I will talk to them again but the next time I talk to them I will tell them that I think we are better off friends. I dont like to play games with people because I would not want to have games played with me. The most important thing to me is if the guy can make me laugh and smile, if he does that at least once or twice during a date im usually hooked!
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My Wish List Includes:
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One thing I really want to do in the future (sooner then later) is buy my own house. Right now that is my number one goal! I also want to travel. I have been a few places but not enough. There are so many places I want to visit and havent yet!
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Smoke.
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I Drink.
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I Like Pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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I Don't Like having Competitive Partners.
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I Like going to clubs/bars.
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Lots of Stress in my life.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I want to get Married.
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I Want to have Kids.
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I Am Not a Stubborn Person.
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I Do Not enjoy going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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