I am 39, live by O'Hare airport, a self employed anti geek-oid Computer Tech and web design/e-commerce provider. Too keep myself out of trouble (didn't work) ;o) , I recently took classes for Computer Forensics. Cool Stuff.

I am a gentleman, believe in chivalry and respect loving women. But this should not be mistaken as a door mat. I am a man and know how to handle myself, am Dominant and decisive.

I'm a committed, loyal, honest, fun, educated male, assertive, but not arrogant or stuck on myself. Joking sarcasm and quick wit is fun, but so is being serious when the situation warrants and calls for it. Life is short, I am not out to screw people, I like going to bed at night with a clear mind, but know how to handle myself if my loved ones or territory are threatened.

Besides shared attraction, we must have the "click" where the 2 people are socially comfortable to interact and even be surrounded by silence. If either one of us are lacking either of the 2, failure is imminent.

I usually sport longer hair, because I am donating it to charity for children that need hair due to illness. Wigs for Kids and Locks for Love are the 2 I donate to. I am doing what will make me and someone else happy. If you truly love kids, you know where I am coming from. So, if family, friends or yourself would have a problem with this. we would probably not get along. I don't judge on looks, I would hope you are the same.

I believe in returning & sharing what you have, to others that don't. What comes around, goes around, just a matter of time.

I would describe myself as an angel with his halo being held up with horns. Being an angel all the time is sweet but gets boring. Being a devil all the time is fun but gets you burned. Best of both worlds. Is that you too ? Good, the search is over, we have finally met! ;)

She must know who she is, and what she wants. Must be emotionally available. Someone that can effectively relate and express herself, aka know how to nicely say what is on your mind, not assume and let things go. =) Someone loyal, committed, honest, and has a love for life.

A mother at heart that will be able to be adult enough to teach and guide her children, but enough "child" in her to be young at heart. Also, know if you want to date, or are looking for a serious relationship. No "hidden" agendas. Lets be honest and forthright so there are no hurt feelings later on.

I am open to someone to go to the movies with spend quality time to get out and have some good fun or find my future mate and work toward a long term, as I want to get married and have children, the whole 9 yards. I believe in family.

She must have looks? Absolutely! What type of looks? That is what is in my eye, no way to explain. But I guess attraction is the best way to explain it. Attraction doesn't require a certain hair color, size, curves etc.it just happens, especially if you love life and show it!

There is no drama here. The past is just that. I ask anyone interested in me to please make sure they have dealt with the past and are ready to move forward.

Part of a relationship is to be there, listen and accept the persons past because it has brought them here, and is part of their life, who they are. But it is unhealthy to play therapist in relationship.

Yes, the profile is long. I am a special genuine person with a lot to offer. and if you are not interested to read what I have to say, you are probably not that interested to get to know me! (BIG grin) So.

OK, now that we see you have made it this far and I have scared off 95% of the females, to the other 5%, I am anxious to hear from you! =)