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People say that I am:
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sarcastic, blunt, fun, spontaneous. i am a no bull kind of person. what is the point in sugar coating things. i tend to do a lot of things on the spur of the moment. i have a big heart and i help others when and if i can, which unfortunately bites me in the rear pretty often. i use to be a very trusting person.until my husband betrayed me several times. i believe in second chances. but as the saying goes. first time shame on u, second time there will be no shame on me.
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Things that have bothered me:
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leeches. i have a very kind heart, to a down fall. it has come back to bite me in the rear a lot recently. mostly in the last 9 months. i don't want someone who i have to support or someone who is lookin for a free meal ticket. i don't want someone who has forgotten how to have fun or who is still hung up on high school drama and drugs. i live a simple, stress and drama free small town country life. i want some one to share that with, not someone to destroy it again. I want someone who can be completely honest with me and hide nothing. If you are hiding something, that generally means you have done something you should not have. I don't like secrets in a relationship. I firmly believe that communication is the key to success.
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I am looking for:
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most importantly, loyalty and trust. i want someone i can share all my secrets with and not have to worry about the small town rumor mill getting wind of them. sadly i do want some chivalry. i don't ask for it to be constant but its still nice to be treated like a lady every so often. i want someone who is open minded. i am a nonconformist and i'm not always lady like or tactful. i tend to be a little crude. very much so a tomboy. i can be a lady when the need arises but i like my blue jeans, boots (when I'm not wearin flip flops) and tank tops. I love tattoos. I have 9 so far and plan on adding to my collection. I want someone who can appreciate the art of tattoos. No one has a tat like mine. All of mine are custom and have sentiment and meaning.
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My funniest life experience:
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wow. college. that should be explanitor enough. became friends with the people in the adjoining room. very close friends. they took me home with them for a weekend and i fell in love with the place. college was one big party for me unfortunately. I admit that i screwed up. I was fresh out of high school and the party scene was new to me. I had a blast in that town. I lived the small town country life for the better part of a year and loved it. Cruising in circles on the gravel roads all night. sleeping under the stars. levee jumping. :) all i can think about is moving back to that town. my little slice of heaven. that is where i want to settle and raise my family. that is where i want to make my home and life with my special someone. small town country life the way it should be. hopefully this time i can keep my head out of the bottle and remember how to have some fun the right way again.
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Cool Movies:
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cant buy me love, some kind of wonderful, cry baby, sixteen candles, Farris beuler, dirty dancing, road house, pirates of the Caribbean, bone collector, interview with the vampire, underworld, blue collar comedy tour, wow there's a lot more
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My Favorite Groups are:
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anything except opera. i love 70s and 80s rock. mama brought me up listening to Springsteen, van halen, acdc, metalica, lynard skynard, eddie money, reo, styx, ccr, wow. memories. i'm big into rock and country. my favorite country songs for the moment are miranda lambert's gunpowder and lead and ashton shepard's takin off this pain. if u know those songs u can pretty much guess how my life is right now.
I don't expect someone i meet to share my love for the country of country music, but it would be nice if they could appreciate the simplicity of my country life and my music. To at least give it a try before turning his nose up at it.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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to me, sarcasm is sexy. i love someone who can make me laugh. i am a fire fighter so i don't always have a p.c. sense of humor. i want someone who can understand and appreciate a little dark humor. confidence is a must. i have dated people before who did not think highly of themselves and it wears on a person to constantly have to reassure the other. I will give you trust to start but please don't make me regret it. Once my trust is broken it is very hard to mend. If you have a mental disorder, I'm not ruling it out. But please, for both our sakes, take your medication if you cant control it on your own. I have dealt with that enough in the last 3 years to suffice even the most renowned of shrinks. I have a lot of patience but even i wear thin after so long.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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Yes i am willing to sacrifice and compromise. I have done it since i left home. my best example would have to be electricity. had to pick between electric bill and rent last summer. in july actually. was really hot out. so i picked rent obviously. lost 150 bucks worth of groceries and two big bucks from my deep freeze. didnt get it turned back on til late august. i like the summer dont get me wrong its my favorite season, but when the thermometer in the house is reading 100 degrees. its hot. lookin at having to do it this summer too. joy.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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i'm here to meet people and have fun. my life has been one big b.s. roller coaster for the last two years. now that i am alone again its time to meet someone who can help me remember what fun is. my version of fun at the moment is ordering pizza and renting a movie or spending the day on the river bank. still classifies as fun but i'm tryin to better my life now. i deserve much better than what i have. i dont need someone to take care of me or a sugar daddy. i can do fine on my own. just want someone to come home to who is genuinely interested in me. someone who is willing to share the responsibilities and not leave me to do everything while he lays in bed all day scratching and watchin tv. I have met a few people off the internet. Never had anything serious develop, just a few good friends. I want friendship above and beyond anything intimate. If you cant be my friend first then what's the point?
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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there's a lot in my past that i am putting behind me. at the same time though my past has made me who i am today. i am not a push over and i am not easily inclined to hand over my life. i am not naive. there are things in my past that would be other people's worst nig ares. i am a stronger person because of those things. i am definitely looking for a new beginning. looking for someone to share in that with me. someone who wants a big family and is willing to sacrifice to make it happen. i love my country life, i want to keep that and the values that come along with it. i just want someone who enjoys the simple joys. wranglers, mud, fishin and swimmin in the river, 4 wheel drive, bbqs, rug rats chasin critters round the yard, walkin around barefoot in the summer heat with a big glass of sweet tea or kool aid. interested??
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My typical day:
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my life isn't very exciting. i spend all night awake and sometimes all day asleep when I'm not workin. my perfect date isn't anything specific. just as long as it involves spending the day outdoors. all i do is work, play pool, and spend time catching up with my friends. i tend to keep my true friends close. they in essence become my family. i like to have fun just like anyone else but i want a grown man to share my happiness with. no a child.
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My Wish List Includes:
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i would love to go sky diving and travel more. have been in Missouri most of my life. i don't remember much from being stationed in California as a child, or Kansas. i would love to see Europe some day. especially england as i have family there. i would love more than anything to see the ocean. sounds silly but i have never seen it. and above all, i would love to be a mother and share my love of family with someone who actually appreciates me and what i do. i want someone who can support himself and that wont be dependent on me for everything. someone who appreciates and knows what a hard days work is and what bustin your butt for a penny is.
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Smoke.
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I Drink.
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I Like Pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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I Spend Long Hours at My Job.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
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I'm not that Stressed.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I sometimes want to get married.
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I Want to have Kids.
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I Am as Stubborn Person.
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Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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Sometimes it's important to have a clean house.
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