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| NYC/Princeton, New York Dating
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| Response Rate: 77%
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| Sensually hot
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| Gemini
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| Various
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| M
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| 29 years of age
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| 5'9 - 5'10
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| Single
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| Citi IT/Financial Analyst
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| 85k-94k
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| Here For
Dating
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People say that I am:
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Character traits I respect that resonate:
- authentic integrity
- conscious independence
- interdependence (sustainable progress)
- visionary leadership
- compassionate curiosity
Taste of my personal side:
Born in London and lived in various countries before growing up here. Most recently moved from the East Village to Philly and now in Princeton. Where to next? I guess where to next might depend on if you're in the picture and how we resonate. Currently working by Battery Park in NYC and considering a move in the next year.
I enjoy experiencing the process of life, rediscovering simple ideas of being present in an exceedingly complex period. I love perspectives like Six Thinking Hats by EdwardDeBono:
* WhiteHat: JustTheFacts,
- unemotional data and questions about getting more data.
* BlackHat: TheDownSide,
- negative consequences, the worst things that could happen.
* YellowHat: TheUpSide,
- positive consequences, the best things that could happen.
* GreenHat: InnovativeIdeas,
- off-the-wall creativity.
* RedHat: GutFeelings,
- emotions, what you really think in your heart and belly.
* BlueHat: MetaThinking,
- process and procedure.
I searched "Six Thinking Hats" for what the hat metaphor does:
* It better separates fact from opinion,
* It more easily identifies important parts of the decision making process,
* It provides a neutral language for meta-discussion. You can say, "Take off your BlackHat for a moment and look at the upside." The idea is not that BlackHat is wrong, but that it is not the appropriate hat here. All the hats are equally valuable.
* It prevents arguments by keeping everybody under the same hat at the same time, and putting down contradictory ideas in parallel, and
* It provides a discipline to ensure that the issue under consideration is seen from many sides (e.g., from the points of view of all six hats).
IF I MAY QUOTE ANOTHER PROFILE: "Anyhow, this is not grocery shopping, you don't get to know a person by reading what's on the label."
I'm intrigued by simplexity. Rambling on about me in this little box will do little to flesh who I am, you are or what we're about. Open my book to a page and ask the first question that comes to your mind. If you need an enjoyable, exciting conversation starter, tell me about an adventurous chapter in your life or a hobby of choice.
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Things that have bothered me:
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Lack of patience can be quite a downer :/
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I am looking for:
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I love connecting individuals. The highlight of my life are the good people and great experiences we've shared. Ie. The creative process (through music, dancing, technology entertainment design - yes that's a nod to TED), traveling and in general exploring the nuances of life. I enjoy meeting new people, even if it's just a friendly online conversation. obviously, a deeper lasting relationship requires a foundation of attraction on many levels that is best discovered face to face.
I'm interested in how well we resonate and adapt our lives through time, while staying true. Do you keep your intentions in check? Can you challenge ideas without letting your temper get in the way of great conversation? What questions drive you? (feel free to respond ;-)
Whether you are looking for an interesting new friendship, curious if something more could connect us or possibly get introduced to friend of friends more compatible. someone has to start the conversation, so go ahead. start it up.
Enjoy the present and get excited about our future. words have not been created to describe the possibilities ahead.
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Cool Movies:
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My Favorite Groups are:
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From alternative grunge rock to various forms electronica, especially deep loungy house to classical to profound hip hop, trip hop, anything that rocks in it's own masterpiece of a way!
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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Yes, if impatience creeps it's ego into a conversation, a temporary compromise from both sides seems fair. So I'm always willing to compromise.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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Yes, meeting in person is preferable to virtual chatter.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I start everyday fresh and choose to live in the present.
Accept the Past, Enjoy the Present and am Enthusiastically Excited about the Future.
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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Sometimes I like pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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Sometimes I spend long hours at work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
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I'm not that Stressed.
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I sometimes try to stay in shape.
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I want to get Married.
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I Want to have Kids.
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I Am Not a Stubborn Person.
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I Love going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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