CREATIVEMIND755 - Artistic, sensitive, romantic, openminded, philosophical, sensual, ual, comforting, and accepting man, awaits the same in my dream woman/soulmate.
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| South Pasadena, California
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| Response Rate: 4%
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| Very good looks
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| Proportionate
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| Libra
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| African American
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| M
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| 38 years of age
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| 161 lbs - 170 lbs
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| 5'9 - 5'10
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| Single
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| composer/musician
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| Under 25k
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| Here For
Long Term Relationship
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People say that I am:
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I've been a loner most of my life, but my "friends" of the past would probably say that I'm very laidback, quiet and shy with new people, easygoing, sensitive, and funny, yet suspicious, moody, and antisocial, but perceptive able 2 "read between the lines" of most situations, 2 uncover the truth of the matter, and highly spiritual.
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Things that have bothered me:
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Not being accepted 4 me AS IS! Most women have tried 2 change me in one way or another I'm sure most guys can relate 2 this, and it not only NEVER works, but it's a sure way 2 end a relationship b4 it really begins! Also, my other main gripe has been women who are only concerned about materialism, not even seeming 2 care about a guy's character and heart. The abundance of miserable couples out there can be attributed, largely, 2 this observation. If more women selected men based on his insides, and how she feels about him, instead of how much he does or doesn't have in his bank account, there would be alot more truly happy couples in the world.
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I am looking for:
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Obviously, from what I just stated above, a woman who is NOT materialistic, and who DOES ACCEPT ME 4 ME AS IS!!! Besides that, I crave openmindedness she doesn't have 2 agree with everything, 'cuz that would be boring, but at least consider more than 1 point of view, nonjudmentalness, being supportive, sensitive, compassionate, romance long drives up the coast, cozy dinners out, or candlelit dinners in, beaches at sunset, sensuality, lots of physical affection outside of the bedroom hand holding, hugging, kissing, massaging, and caressing, high libido, open and honest communication can disclose her innermost feelings and thoughts about any and everything 2 me, respect 4 my way of doing things and living even if she doesn't agree wholeheartedly, or it doesn't work 4 her, enjoy my warped sense of humor, and just enjoys lots of quality time 2gether.
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My funniest life experience:
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I can't think of any right now, but I will say that I can find humor in almost anything, and despite my strong serious side, I also have a very goofy, funny side, that loves 2 laugh, tells jokes and stories, does impressions, and is just plain silly! I love sarcasm, goofiness, and raunchiness in my humor, ala the TV classic "3's Company", and the comedian Chris Rock.
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Cool Movies:
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I'm not really a movie buff, mainly 'cuz I have a habit of falling asleep during half of the movie, 95% of the time regardless of it being morning, noon, or night, and regardless of who paid! I guess I'm just 2 restless, but, of the movies that I recall, that really have stuck with me, would be Fatal Attraction who could 4get that 1 classic!, Above The Law Steven Segal's 1st one, Malcolm X Denzel deserved an Oscar 4 that 1, Boyz 'N' The Hood, Menace II Society, Training Day Denzel finally won long overdue!, New Jack City, Save The Last Dance, just 2 name a few, and on the musical tip, Purple Rain Prince is my all time favorite, musically, Sign Of The Times Prince again, and 8 Mile Eminem's freestyles are incredible!.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I pretty much like most styles of music, except 4 country unless u're talking Shania Twain or Leann Rimes, but only certain songs and probably classical. I love R&B mainly soft, soothing, melodic music, like Sade, R.Kelly, India Arie, Alicia Keys, Babyface, Boyz II Men, folks like that, but also more uptempo groups, like TLC, and of course, Prince is my all time favorite. Usher and Brandy are good 2, rap Snoop, Ice Cube, Eminem, JayZ, Ludacris, Outkast, rock Alanis Morrissette, Avril Lavigne, folk Jewel, smooth jazz instrumentals, reggae Bob Marley, whew! That's enough 4 now!
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I am looking for a personality like:
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It all goes back 2 being openminded, nonjudgmental, and accepting a person as is. It's just a feeling I get when I'm in a person's presence. Even if no words are spoken, I can tell when a person disapproves of my ways. When I feel this, I will shut down, but when I get that open vibe, then I will open up, slowly, but surely. As 4 me, I feel that I make people feel comfortable by giving a very simple, yet rare gift, which is I LISTEN. As much as I'm strong in my own opinions, I truly am open 2 other viewpoints, and I always put myself in someone else's shoes, being the Libra that I am, 'cuz only by being open and curious, and willing 2 see another's point of view, instead of just rushing 2 judgment, can u truly understand, and have compassion 4 how, and why a person is the way they are.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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My whole life has been a compromise, 4 the sake of survival. Being a composer/musician, anyone who knows about musicians knows that they hate regular jobs, yet I've begrudgingly sought out plenty of them, when family cash was low. But, because I always hated what I did, 'cuz it wasn't my music, no job ever lasted, and I even got physically ill on some, due 2 extreme stress from being so unhappy and unfulfilled. Other than that, in difficult financial times, whatever money I do have goes into the family pot 2 pay bills, and all personal enjoyment is put on hold.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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Yes, I have met some women off the internet, and I've had 2 short-lived relationships from it. I really want a serious LONG-TERM relationship, my soulmate 2 be exact. I don't like the dating scene, and I'm an introverted loner, so what better way 2 go than the internet!
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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Actually, it's a new beginning all the way 4 me. I'm starting all over, in every area of my life! As far as women are concerned, I've always desired my other half, my true soulmate, and I feel that I'm ready 4 her now.
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My typical day:
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I'll keep this a "mystery" 4 now! Only those SERIOUS about getting 2 know me will get this "411"!
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My Wish List Includes:
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My main wish is 4 my TRUE SOULMATE! Once I find "HER", she and I can discuss ALL of BOTH of our future dreams and desires!
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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Sometimes I am a spontaneous person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
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Lots of Stress in my life.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I want to get Married.
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Sometimes I feel that I would like to have kids.
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Sometimes I can be stubborn.
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I Do Not enjoy going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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