I am usually a laid-back person, but if I feel that I am being wronged, threatened or whatever, I will stand up for what I believe in. I will not let people walk all over me. I will not allow people to make a fool of me. I will not allow my feelings to be stepped on without a fight. I am spunky, but the most caring, generous loyal person you will ever meet in your entire life.
Things that have bothered me:
Narcissism - look it up.
I am looking for:
I am looking for someone who is not a narcissist. I am looking for someone who cares about the little things, and doesn't call me needy for wanting to spend 1 night alone with him weekly without his friends up his ass. A person who appreciates when I go to the store for them, or go and make a special trip to the bank for them that is completely out of the way. Someone who appreciates the little things I buy for them at the store, like a bag of their favorite chips, or a pack of cigarettes. Someone who doesn't use me as their errand service, like when I say I am coming over, then tell me to stop at the store for individual items for all his friends, and never see a dime for it. Someone who doesn't constantly take take take, and gives a little something back. Someone who takes me out to dinner once in a while instead of staying at his house wasting my life away with his friends. Someone who is romantic, and buys me flowers or a romantic note on my car window for me to find in the morning. Not someone who just expects me to bake them cupcakes for no particular reason, and never does anything nice for me. Someone who would drive me around once in a while instead of driving him around wasting all my gas. Someone who knows what hard work is, and doesn't cry about it when he has to work more than 5 hours. Someone who understands that when I get home from work, I am tired and a little cranky and gives me some space. Not someone who wants to press my buttons to piss me off, and cause an argument. Someone that actually pays you back when you spring 200 bucks for concert tickets for him and his friends because they didn't have money at the time because they spent it all on weed. Someone who has some kind of intention of moving out of their parents house, instead of living in their basement and telling me their car insurance payment and cell phone payment is for rent. Someone who takes showers daily, and shaves. Someone who is clean cut, not a scruffy guy I am afraid to bring home on the holidays. One who has respect for me, and doesn't treat me like a maid, or arm-candy so to speak. One who treats me nice, and values my views and opinions, and doesn't dismiss them with name calling that I am crazy, or just a bytch. One who keeps their promises, and doesn't yes me to death. In case your wondering, I am describing my ex. I want someone the complete opposite of him.
Cool Movies:
Back to the Future, Batman Begins, Beetle Juice, Blow, Boogie Nights, Boondock Saints, Bronx Tale, Butterfly Effect, Casino, Catch Me If You Can, Chasing Amy, Clerks, Dark Crystal, Departed, Die Hard, Dumb & Dumber, Edward Scissorhands, Fifth Element, Fight Club, Forrest Gump, Full Metal Jacket, Galaxy Quest, Ghost Busters, Girl Interrupted, Good Morning Vietnam, Goodfellas, Gremlins, Kill Bill, Lord of the Rings, Matrix, Memento, Neverending Story, Office Space, Pink Floyd The Wall, Pirates of the Carribean (Johnny Depp <3,) Poltergeist, Pulp Fiction, Requiem for a Dream, Shining, Sin City, South Park, Spaceballs, Star Wars, Superman, Terminator, There's Something About Mary, V for Vendetta, Mission Impossible, Happy Gilmore, Italian Job, Independence Day, Waterboy, Beavis and Butt Head, Eddie Izzard-Dressed to Kill, Triple , Fast and Furious, Fear and Loathing in Las Vagas, Meet the Parents, Analyze This/That
My Favorite Groups are:
AC/DC, Alice in Chains, Alice Cooper, Beatles, Bad Religion, Black Sabbath, Bob Marley, Black Flag, Blind Guardian, The Clash, Creed, Corporate Avengers, Ronnie James Dio, The Doors, Dead Kennedys, The Drones, Deep Purple, Dream Theater, Eric Clapton, Eddie and the Hot Rods, OLD Foo Fighters, Guns N' Roses, Helloween, Iced Earth, Green Day (From way back in the day), Iron Maiden, Bruce inson, Jimmi Hendrix, Judas Priest, Kiss, Led Zeppelin, Lynard Skynyrd, NOFX, Nine Inch Nails, Megadeth, Motorhead, Motley Crew, Mad Season, Metallica (pre St. Anger), Misfits, Mother Loves Bone, Mushroomhead, Nirvana, Powerman , Pantera (RIP Dimebag), The Pagans, Purple Heart, Pearl Jam, Paul Simon, Poison, Pink Floyd, Queen, Rammstein, REM (Thanks Mari,) The Ramones, Rush, Rob Zombie, Rolling Stones, Rancid, Scorpions, Skid Row, Sound Garden, The Stranglers, Social Distortion, Screaming Trees, Stone Temple Pilots, Sex Pistols, Slayer, Savage Garden (YES I know I am a loser,) Smashing Pumpkins, Spineshank, Spinal Tap, Saxon, Sublime, Tom Petty, Temple of the Dogs, Thin Lizzy, Tool, Velvet Revolver, W.A.S.P, Whitesnake, Y&T, The Who, Wallflowers (Again, I am aware,) Warrent.
I am looking for a personality like:
Personality traits that help me be myself are people that are down to earth. People I don't feel the need to impress so to speak. Someone that accepts me for the person that I am with my flaws. Someone who doesn't try and change the person I am to better suite their needs. Someone who doesn't take advantage of my generosity. Someone who appreciates what I do for them. Someone who doesn't expect me to be a housewife, and clean up after them, and do their laundry. Someone who understands the 50/50 rule and treats me like an equal rather than I should worship the ground they walk on. Someone who puts my needs before their own, as I would do for them.
Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
I am always willing to compromise in difficult times and situations. Its people who take advantage of that factor that pisses me off.
Willingness to meet others from boM:
I am looking to meet anyone granted they aren't rapists or mass murders.
Are you ready to start from scratch?
Well I have no other choice, it took me 3 years to realize I was dating someone that didn't care about my needs at all. I have to leave and get away from him as he is the source of all my mental problems. He is killing me from the inside out.
My typical day:
I wake up in the morning and brew some coffee. I spend a half hour waking up and slamming down a couple cups of coffee. Then I run upstairs and take a shower, blow dry my hair, get dressed etc. Then I leave for work, grab a poptart, a premade pb+j I made the night before, and a drink. I hope in my car and start my 45 min drive to work slamming down the poptart, and a couple of cigarettes. When I arrive at work, I rinse my mouth with some mouthwash, and spray some perfume so I don't wreak of smoke. I go to work from 8:30-6:00pm. Then depending on what my school schedule is, I head to Brookdale for class, or head home to change out of my work clothes and wash my face. Maybe call the girls and go out somewhere, a diner to get coffee, or watch a movie and hang out. Then go to sleep at a reasonable hour, and do it all again Mon-Fri. Weekends I usually like to chill out and rest. Have time for myself. Or go out and do something.
My Wish List Includes:
I want to go to Europe. Travel the world. Get out of NJ!
My Videos/Music/Other Content:
Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
I'm not Materialistic.
I Smoke.
I Drink Sometimes.
I Like Pets.
Sometimes I like to travel.
Sometimes I am an active person.
I Spend Long Hours at My Job.
I Am a Spontaneous Person.
Friends Are Important to me.
I Don't Like having Competitive Partners.
Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
Lots of Stress in my life.
I sometimes try to stay in shape.
I Don't Want to get Married.
I Don't Want to have Kids.
I Am as Stubborn Person.
Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
Sex is not important.
Sometimes it's important to have a clean house.
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