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More East Greenville Dating Online
CRYSTALLILY66 - I Don't Want to be Lonely Anymore
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| East Greenville, Pennsylvania Dating
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| Response Rate: 62%
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| Average
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| Curvy, baby, I'm curvy!
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| Gemini
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| Caucasian
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| F
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| 41 years of age
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| 5'3 - 5'4
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| Separated
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| Home body
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| Here For
Long Term Relationship
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People say that I am:
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Friendly, happy, upbeat, compassionate, intelligent, easy going, creative, sweet, fun to be around, easy to talk to, a big heart, patient, gentle, caring, a problem solver.
I'm always the one my friends call when they have a problem, or when they are down. I'm the one who gives them the answers, or helps them deal with a situation.
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Things that have bothered me:
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Oh my, it's been so long since I've been on a date, I don't know what to say here. I guess getting drunk would be bothersome on a date. I don't like pushy people. I don't have sex on a first or fifth date. I want to make sure I find the right one before I get into anything serious. I'm not looking for a one night stand. I want someone who can think of more than just sex. And see me as more than someone to have sex with.
I truly believe that there is a difference between having sex, and making love. I've done both I never want to have sex again. Making love is so much more enjoyable, and meaningful.
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I am looking for:
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I'm looking for someone who is kind, gentle, likes children, strong, easy going, doesn't yell, enjoys conversation, someone who likes to cuddle on the sofa, hold hands out in public. A man who knows how to fix things, or work with his hands. Someone who likes to go on walks, and someone who will treat me like I'm the best thing that ever happened to them. Someone satisfied with having only one woman in their life, and won't be on the lookout for the next one.
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My funniest life experience:
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I used to live in an apartment, and used a ringer washing machine to do my family's laundry in. I would pull the washer into the bathroom, fill it from the shower head, and it would drain out then into the bath tub.
I was doing laundry one day, and my youngest daughter, who was about 2 at the time, was watching me pick up dirty clothing, and put it into the washer.
I look over at her, as she comes and picks up a few pieces of clothing. I thought "Oh how cute! She's going to help me do the laundry!" She walked past where I was standing by the washer, and continued over to the toilet. Before I could get to her, she had lifted the lid, and dropped the clothing she had into the toilet! I was laughing so hard at how she was "helping" me, but I made it to the toilet before she could flush them clean "lol".
That's always been one of my fondest memories of her, and I still tell this tale a lot, even though she's 14 now.
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Cool Movies:
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I'm a huge horror movie buff! I like the "Saw Series", "The Ring", "Wrong Turn", "Silent Hill", "The Lost Boys", anything from Stephen King, there are too many to list :)
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My Favorite Groups are:
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As for music, I love rock! I like the bass turned up, so the windows thump! Well, maybe not that loud. I do enjoy all types of music though. From oldies, to pop.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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I'm most myself around people who like to talk. Start an interesting conversation, and I'm right in there :) I also like being around people who have a good sense of humor. I like to add to the fun as well. I like someone who looks into my soul, rather than my outward appearance. I'm no monster, but I have a very cool personality that you will never get to know if you judge me before you meet me.
I haven't been active for about 12 years, as I've been disabled due to a tremor disease, and chronic pain in my lower back. Just this past Spring (), my pain started easing, and I was able to be more active again. I can now drive, after 12 years of barely being able to walk! I've lost 50 pounds since my new found freedom, and I'm still dropping.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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Yes, I am willing to compromise in many situations.
I had enrolled my youngest into an online public school this past year. My daughter's father never voiced one way or the other his opinion on the matter, until he came home from work one day, and demanded that I remove her from the online school, or he would take me to court, sue me, to have her placed back in the local public school.
Of course, he didn't realize that I knew his threat was bogus, because the school only required one parent's consent etc., and my husband likes to make a lot of empty threats.
So I yielded to him, and contacted the school, to stop the enrollment process. I told my husband that I would remover her, but that HE would have to tell my daughter what he demanded of me.
My daughter arrived home from school, in a very happy mood. I told her that her dad had something to tell her, so she sat down and listened to what he had to say. She was heart broken! He wasn't very nice about it to her either.
I didn't want to remover her from the school, but I did respect his wishes, and removed her A few weeks later, he abandoned us for someone else.
He was being so mean, and cruel to us, trying to get me to kick him out It didn't work, so he left
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I am very willing to meet people through this service. I've found some old school friends online, and have met with them, and now stay in touch in person and through email.
I am really hoping to find someone special on here. I hate being alone. My husband wouldn't let me have many online friends, or he would accuse me of cheating on him, so I would love to make some friends, as well as meet someone special to be in my life.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I am ready to start over with someone new in my life. I have most of my possessions in storage It's not easy to divide a home of 15 years into 3.
Since my husband left back in October 07, I have written him off, and there is no chance of going back with him To me, that is the unforgivable sin. Cheating on me I did have a unique living situation though.
My first husband was abusive to me and my 3 children. So I left him to be with the man I was with for almost 15 years. My second husband didn't work, and when he did, he made minimum wage, so he couldn't support us without financial aid. That meant we would have to live in low income housing, and in a bad school district, and an unsafe neighborhood.
None of us wanted that for the children, so we all pulled together, and lived under the same roof, to give the children something better. *That was my idea*
It wasn't easy, but we did it. In fact, the two men went together to buy a house for me Now, that will be foreclosed on, because we couldn't afford to keep it, and I couldn't stay with ex husband number one, as he has always wanted me back Enough so that he expressed his interest in me before I moved out of the house, to a different county, to live with my sister and her family.
I have no love like that left for him after the many beatings I took from him, so that's just not going to happen
I'm ready for a new and fresh start, with someone who can give my daughter and I much happiness. I think we are due for a change for the better for once in our lives.
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My typical day:
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My perfect date experience would be fairly relaxed. Start with going out to eat, somewhere casual. Then perhaps a movie (horror, thriller, suspense are my favorites), or going to a sprint car track to watch a few local races. Something fun, and exciting. Then arrive back at home, be walked to the door, for a goodnight kiss.
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A day in my life right now is pretty boring actually My daughter and I had to move in with my sister and her family right now, as I couldn't stay in the same county as my ex is in. Just too depressing!
For now, I wake up, shower, dress, come downstairs and drink a few cups of coffee, while I share some conversation with my sister and her husband.
After that, I usually get on the computer to check my email, enter some contests, then play a game or two on pogo .
Then my sister has a grocery list ready, so I take her shopping, which can take up to 90 minutes. Come home, empty the car, put the groceries away, then head out to either go or take someone to counseling, or a doctor's visit Another hour or two done there.
Back home, and relax for an hour or so, until it's time to eat. After that, we usually play video games until it's time for the kids to go to bed. Then a movie or continue game playing, until it's time for bed.
See, very boring! There isn't much I can do right now, as I don't have my own car to come and go as I please.
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My Wish List Includes:
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Life with my husband of the past 15 years has been really boring I guess. He has a phobia of being around large groups of people he doesn't know, so we never went anywhere, or did much of anything I've never been to a nice restaurant, never went to a movie with him, never to the beach, never on a vacation, never on a cruise, never traveled, we just stayed home, and watched TV Boring!!!
I put up with it though, because I did love him, for better or worse. His choice to leave, opens many new doors for me. I am no longer obligated to keep the vows I took with him, and even though some days are difficult right now, I know this is truly for the best. I'm free to find a man that has better than a 3rd grade education, who enjoys conversations about more than just fixing cars. My son got married this past Summer, and my husband didn't even have the nerve to attend the wedding with me. He should have been there, as he helped raise my son, but he refused to go. That really hurt and upset me, and the more I tried to talk to him about it, the worse he treated me by giving me the silent treatment.
I want to do so much now!!! I want to travel to National Monuments, museums, tourist attractions, small out of the way places,
and so much more!
I have never been very coordinated, so sports play is pretty much out of the picture for me. I would enjoy going to sporting events though.
I just want to see everything I've been missing for the past 15 years, and someone special to show me the way!
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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I Don't Like To Travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
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My life is somewhat stressfull.
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I sometimes try to stay in shape.
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I want to get Married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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Sometimes I can be stubborn.
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Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
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Sometimes sex is important to me.
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Sometimes it's important to have a clean house.
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