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More MINNEAPOLIS Dating Online
DESMIONJOHN - I'm an ENFP/INFP. Are you familiar with Myers-Briggs or Keirsey temperament sorter? (If not, there's directions in the profile)
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| MINNEAPOLIS, Minnesota Dating
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| Response Rate: 51%
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| Very good looks
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| Toned, I keep fit
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| Sagittarius
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| Caucasian
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| 34 years of age
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| 6'1 - 6'2
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| Single
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| construction
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| I'd rather not say
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| Here For
Dating
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People say that I am:
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It really depends on the situation. The guys I play hockey with and the people that know me in social circles see two very different sides of me. I enjoy making jokes, quick wit, engaging in meaningful debate -so long as its not hostile or that of personal attacks. On the hockey rink my competitive blood boils .but I can play golf and suck so bad it ain't funny and not care more than to just enjoy the fun.
As far as it applies to relationships, I value honesty, loyalty, faithfulness, playfulness, cooperation, being supportive, forgiveness, affection.
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Things that have bothered me:
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Inability to communicate, inflexible, no passion, no creativity, lack of integrity, lack of common sense, self-centeredness, lack of any values.
I need a girl with brains and a backbone yet with the softness to make a relationship a pleasure.
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I am looking for:
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Well rounded in every respect. A unique combination of light-hearted fun and intelligence. The ability to enjoy a back country back-packing trip and enjoy some gorgeous scenery together as well as feeling comfortable in a little skirt and stilettos. It may be a stretch but if she can put up a fight in some form of sport or competition we can enjoy together, that would be an added bonus.
I'm a dreamer, so sue me.
Though there is no polite way to say this, it must be said. If you're easily offended, just click by now. I have an issue with people who let themselves go. I do understand that time and having kids can affect a woman's physique. Once having made a commitment to a woman, I am never going to break it. Thats just who I am. However, as important as inner beauty truly is, there is no reason it must be one or the other. I make a point to grow and maintain myself inside and out. I would only consider a relationship with a woman who does the same
And now for the offensive part. Just to make things clear and avoid any miscommunication of hurt feelings, I will tell you that I have yet to date a girl long term that was larger than a 6 (and some smaller). I'm not saying its impossible, I'm not saying they are better people, I'm just letting you know my history and what I'm looking for romantically.
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My funniest life experience:
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OK, bear with me, this story is longer but funny as hell in the end -if you appreciate a deft touch in the use of witty words and good timing.
I was in a play and this happened during the opening scene, center stage. This was an adaptation of a Charles ens' novel and I was a poor street vendor selling hats on the streets of London. The girl with whom I had been doing this scene for weeks was to play as though she was interested in my wares and looking through them. She and I had become friends and we enjoyed flirty banter but it was nothing more than that.
Well, its dark on stage as we're just about to open. I leaned over to her and said, "I really enjoy this scene with you. I just love it when you fondle my 'hats'".
Well, I thought it was kinda clever but what I didn't know was it had so gotten to her that when the lights came up as we stood on stage, she was beet-red and couldn't even talk! When I realized this, I felt a little bad for her but the situation was so hilarious I was doing all I could do to maintain the scene and not burst out laughing.
She spent the rest of the run trying to trip me up. :)
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Cool Movies:
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Action, thriller, comedies, romance. I like em all but I'll pass on the slasher flics.
Tombstone, Tommy Boy, The Pursuit Of Happiness, Gladiator, Notting Hill (mostly for one particular scene), Godfather, Shawshank, Schindler's List, Snatch, Moonstruck, Meet Joe Black, Goodfellas, Lord of The Rings, Silence Of The Lambs, It's a Wonderful Life, As Good As It Gets, Austin Powers, See No Evil Hear No Evil, Matrix, 12 Angry Men, Tru Grit, Sons Of Katie Elder, Ghost, Saving Private Ryan, Braveheart, Unforgiven, Dirty Dancing, The Dirty Dozen, The Deer Hunter, Chariots Of Fire, The Count Of Monte Cristo, Butch Cassidy & The Sundance Kid,Driving Miss Daisey, Back To The Future, Indiana Jones, Gone With The Wind, Cool Hand Luke, Bourne, Sixth Sense, Heat, Groundhog Day, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, The Wild Bunch, Robin Hood (Costner), Hamlet (Gibson), The Passion of The Christ, Pride & Prejudice, Toy Story, Scarface, Midnight Run, Rain man, Beauty & The Beast, Ben-Hur, Beverly Hills Cop, BodyGuard, A Christmas Story.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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Like many, my tastes are totally diverse. Music has always been integral to my life. Other then dissonant music made intentionally to reflect a confused & tortured soul, I enjoy all music. I suppose the only exclusions would be death metal and rap whose lyrics are so obnoxious as to curdle my stomach.
I particularly enjoy Rock, R&B, Blues, some HipHop/Rap, some crooners, great vocalists, County, Folk, some Indie stuff.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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The Myers-Briggs personality test has been pretty accurate as far as telling who I'd connect with at an exceptionally high level. If you'd like to take it, paste this into your browser- :// kisa.ca/personality/ If that doesnt work, google- kisa parsonality sorter -
While I am open to exploring a relationship with anyone I share attraction with, according to the test, these are a few of the types best suited to my own: ENSJ, ENFJ, INFJ, INTJ, ENFP OR INFP.
As for specifics, everything in balance: an appreciation for simple, juvenile humor as well as finely crafted, sharp wit; an ability to get dirty 4-wheelin & backpacking or lookin like a knock out in a skirt and stilettos; easy going in general but having a spine and her own opinions that she values and sticks to; some drive for success and personal improvement but even more an appreciation for the value and priority of relationships; and lest I forget, she must have a healthy appetite for both emotional and physical intimacy :)
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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Successful living and successful relationships of any kind are full of compromise. If everything is about you, then you should be -and no doubt will be- alone.
Having said that, there are issues of principle, character and morals on which one should never compromise. Ideally, those are the issues that drew people together in the first place.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I'm all about reality. If I wasn't interested in meeting in person, then I wouldn't be here. Need I say, not randomly but if things were going exceptionally well.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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Starting from scratch. with some experience to help us make better choices.
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My typical day:
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I don't mind some friendly chatting but really the only reason I'd spend time here is to possibly meet a girl that's interesting to know beyond the internet.
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My Wish List Includes:
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I wanna take a horse back camping trip into the back country of Yellowstone National Park. I read a piece about 400 unmapped waterfalls there, miles from the only road in the park. Plus I love horses. I can't imagine anything much better than being alone in one of those unmapped waterfalls with no one for miles, frolicking with my one and only.
For those of you that list sky diving as on your to do list, just do it! I've had more than my share of amazing experiences, that free fall before the shoot opens beats 'em all. And go with friends, the memories are priceless.
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