GRANT904 seeks long term

What I need, is to find the love of my life. When I find this total intimacy with a woman, my life will mean something. I am not a sexual adventurer or a womanizer. Rather, I am interested in finding that woman with whom I can share a genuine closeness; someone who needs total love and commitment from a man who will protect them and cherish them. Its like this; without true love, I feel directionless. Without someone to share my life and dreams with, I feel uninspired and life seems rather pointless. I sometimes wonder what life is good for if it is focused totally on the self. It just seem so uninspiring. The lady I seek needs to be a thinker. She needs to have ideas and interests of her own. But, the bottom line is, she needs to believe that there is still a "one and only" out there for her, regardless of all the frustration and nonsense that she has gone through in past relationships. I'm looking for exactly that. my one and only. I have no problems with loneliness. You can be with someone and still be alone. And I can go to movies or shopping or traveling by myself. So, I don't want a companion. I want a friend and a lover and confidant for the rest of my life. So, if your tired of it all and have given up, wake up and send me a note. If you would like to take a different path and experience a passion with a dept and a breath that you dared not really dream about, let me know. One final thought; While I want something serious and permanent, that does not mean I am willing to jump into anything serious or intimate overnight. If your feeling you have to have that, I suggest you move to the next ad. I don't intend that in a harsh way, I just think people in that frame of mind make mistakes. Finally, If you are selfish by nature, I'll pass. I am a giving person by nature and want the same qualities in my woman. It has been said that "when the selfishness ends, the happiness begins". If you see the wisdom in that as well, I would really love to meet you.