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More Altamonte Springs Dating Online
GREYM0ON - I'm still on edge about that "Large but shapely" category I had to put myself in. I'm not perfectly thin, but at the same time, I have no problem attracting attention from men. I'm half asian, mistaken for Hispanic. Big brown eyes, pretty smile (they say)
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| Altamonte Springs, Florida Dating
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| Response Rate: 36%
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| Above average
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| Large but shapely
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| Capricorn
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| Various
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| F
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| 26 years of age
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| Big Brown eyes
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| Brown
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| 171 lbs - 180 lbs
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| 5'7 - 5'8
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| Single
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| looking
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| Under 25k
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| Here For
Dating
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People say that I am:
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It really depends on the friend overall, I guess they'd say I was laid back, mysterious sometimes but that's just because I think more than I talk., intelligent, shy, introverted but funny and oneofakind.
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Things that have bothered me:
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Well there are different kinds of people I've dated The first kind is where it's just one date. If it isn't going well, I'm not afraid to tell him that there's no attraction here. It's a hell of a lot better than leading him on and then not calling him back. Unfortunately for some this doesn't work and he gets all touchy feely and tries to hug me and sneak in a kiss and I have to push him off and usually want to punch him. This leaves me with a lingering distaste for dating. As far as the guys I've actually had a longterm relationship, it's always been the same. Everything is wonderful and exciting at first, and then he loses interest and I drop lower and lower on his list of importance until eventually we break up and I'm left to wonder what I did wrong If I'm too boring, if I'm lousy in bed, if I'm clingy or if I'm indifferent. I guess I'll never know.
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I am looking for:
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If you've got a body like Henry Rollins DEFINATELY drop me a line. I like the tattoed bad boy image. But I'm not looking for a bad boy so I get confused. Prince Charming can go to hell. I have found that there is such a thing as overromanticism and it freaks me out. Honestly, I'm just looking for a friend right now. I know an internet dating place is the last place to look, but I get along with guys pretty well. I grew up with just my Dad and my brother, but I'm definitely not a tomboy. Every relationship I've ever had has started out as a friendship. There's something nervewracking about meeting someone knowing that there's an expectation for it to turn into something and that usually just ruins everything. ANYWAY, if I were looking per se, I would say a sense of humor is most important, maturity, intelligence, generosity and passion.
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My funniest life experience:
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All of my funny stories are "You had to be there to understand" kind of stories, and they really were very funny, but let me try to think One time when I was 15 this guy I had a major crush on who lived down the street was walking by my house with his friends, so i decided to go out my front door wearing my shortest shorts and pretend to walk towards my back yard for some dumb undefinable reason and just as he looked my way as I was rounding the corner, I stepped in a pile of dog crap. a big pile of dog crap. After the way they all laughed at me, I don't think I ever went near that guy again. As I recall his name was Jeff, and I wasted an entire summer sitting outside watching him play baseball with my brother and his friends.
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Cool Movies:
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Best movie ever was 7. Second best movie was Copy Cat.
Um, in case you haven't figured it out, I like murder mysteries, but I also own a copy of "Love Actually" too. See, I told you I wasn't a tomboy. I love fantasy as well. i own Lady Hawk and The Princess Bride. The Lord of the Rings trilogy is the bomb D&D geeks unite!!! and I'm a closet Next Generation Trekkie.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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My Dad was a major influence on my musical tastes. While all the other girls were clinging to their NKOTB merchandise in dreamy bliss, I was rocking out to Queen, Jethro Tull, 3 Dog Night and Cream. Truth be told, I didn't even know who New Kids were until everyone started talking about how "uncool" they were. It was like I'd missed a vital moment in 80's pop culture. But I listen to everything. If I like what I hear, I'll keep listening to it. The first bands I began listening to when I developed my own tastes were the Cure and The Smiths/Morrissey. My friends in highschool got me into Tori Amos and later I discovered Sarah Mclachlan. The Grunge movement got me into Sound Garden and Old Pearl Jam. Chris Cornell is a stud. I love Tool and Old Korn, but I also like Brian McKnight, Enya and Loreena McKennitt. Lately I find myself drawn to Dashboard Confessional and can't wait to go out and buy that Velvet Revolver CD.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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A sense of humor is the greatest key to breaking the ice. I can't stress that enough. In normal situations, I'm pretty brazen and say what I feel, but for some reason, around guys especially guys I don't know I get tongue tied and act like an idiot. I guess what I'm trying to say is that at first, I am very, very shy. What puts me at ease is him being laid back and himself. When a guy starts spouting out corny one liners and plays with my hair and tells me "The light of your eyes reflects your wounded soul" or some BS like that I get very, very uncomfortable. This is why I hate dates. Perhaps just being in a situation that doesn't have a "datelike" quality to it makes me comfortable. As far as my qualities, that's simple I am who I am and there is nothing fake about me. I, too, have a sense of humor and am very laid back.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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When my brother and I were living together in a 2BR apartment, I told him to move all his cheesy home decor into his room so I didn't have to see it. After awhile he told me he was paying half the rent too and deserved to have a say in the decor of the house as well. He agreed that I could put doilies everywhere if he could hang up this cheesy 70s thrift store velvet painting of a canyon on the living room wall. I agreed. I'd say that was a pretty good compromise there. I make compromises every day though. Now that my brother is in Iraq, My family and I have decided to put aside our differences and I visit them every Sunday They live 5 minutes from me I am perfectly aware that I will never be as important to them as a daughter should be and that there are alot of unfairnesses I witness with my Dad and his new family, but I'm old enough to know now that the past is the past and I have to make the best of the current situation. I'm very proud of the friendship I now have with my half sister and the fresh new bond I've got with my Dad again. If that isn't compromise, I don't know what is.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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If I meet the love of my life, that's super dandy. However, my only expectation is friendship. I used to have alot of friends around here, but some have moved away, and some have changed so much that they're no longer fun to be around, some have betrayed me and I've moved on from them, and my best friend, my brother, won't be back for another 3 years. It's a very lonely time in my life and i'm aware that it isn't doing me any good to sit around and mope about it so I figure I'll stay up all night and pour out my soul to an internet dating site. What a great idea!
I did meet someone off the internet before. It ended very badly. We exchanged emails for about 3 months and talked every other night on the phone for about a month and a half. He stated he worked out every day, and even if he didn't that wouldn't have bothered me. When I met him he was very, very large and I was angry that he lied to me instead of telling me the truth at least once in the months I talked with him. Besides which, the attraction was just not there. When he gave me a slobbery kiss goodbye, the emails dwindled until he wrote me an angry email with a poem about betrayal and that was it. It was an overall extremely sucky experience.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I'm not going to lie the last man I was in a relationship with was the love of my life. I spent 5 years of my life secretly in love with him, another 6 months happily in love with him, and then a year and a half chasing after those lost 6 months. I knew how we were going to get married, that we were going to have 3 kids. I quit the greatest job I've ever had here, and moved to Georgia to convince him of how right we were for each other And there was little discouraging on his part, oh how wicked mind games really are After 7 months, I was left with a broken heart, a clearer sense of who he was, and a whole lot of bitterness towards life and love. I moved back here in October. I called him once a month until January. He came to visit last month. He hugged me when he saw me and he left with a handshake. i'm very proud of getting over him. There was a time I thought that I wouldn't ever, that this was my only love and all that crap. To top it off, my exhusband still hasn't gotten over me leaving him and calls about once a month to let me know what a horrible person I am and how much I've ruined his life. This is why I believe in friendship first. It's going to take a hell of lot for me to fall in love again, and I'm rather enjoying my independence right now.
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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Sometimes I like to travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Spend Long Hours at My Job.
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Sometimes I am a spontaneous person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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I Don't Like having Competitive Partners.
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I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
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Lots of Stress in my life.
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I sometimes try to stay in shape.
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I sometimes want to get married.
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Sometimes I feel that I would like to have kids.
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I Am as Stubborn Person.
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I Love going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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