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IAMTHATIAM - Sexy intelligent former bad boy


IAMTHATIAM
IT Architect dating single IT Architect
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Colorado Springs, Colorado Dating
Response Rate: 25%
Very good looks
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Virgo  
African American
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45 years of age
6'3 - 6'4
Single
IT Architect
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People say that I am:  
Enneagram personality type 8 – “The challenger" - charismatic, decisive, assertive, honorable, resourceful, determined (innate desire to impact the world in some significant way), pragmatic (rugged individualist), shrewd, insistent, demanding of respect.intense (aka steam roller/mach truck, sometimes perceived as too much, too loud, too big, too much energy, or too whatever).oppositional (confront to know what the truth is, enjoy a worthy opponent).extremely intelligent (I value the opinions of others but I think for myself), willful/take charge attitude (my way is probably the right way and I usually get what I want), spiritual (still healing the wounded child who fell victim to Catholicism's unholy theology of sin, guilt and fear).rebellious (refuse to give in to social convention, basic desire is to determine my own course in life). open-minded philosopher (no topic is off limits for discussion), independent/free spirited (basic fear of being dominated, harmed or controlled by others).candid (I have a direct, no nonsense approach to life, any indirectness is usually perceived as deception) . fair/just (the world is an unjust place. I am strong and I defend the innocent), wry sense of humor, somewhat shy and introverted at times.
Things that have bothered me:  
People who are dishonest, deceitful and lack integrity
I am looking for:  
I am interested in women who consider stimulating, thought provoking conversation intellectual foreplay and who enjoy companionship with an honest (my word is my bond), romantic (beneath the rugged exterior lies a sensitive and compassionate lover), down-to-earth, trustworthy, reliable person who is not afraid to laugh at himself.I am learning how to have fun (nurturing my inner, magical child) and am willing to try anything once :-).I have discovered the hard way that "character matters" and I value truth, honesty and integrity above all else.I am looking for someone who understands that you must first see your Self as worthy before you can see another as worthy, that you must first see your Self as blessed before you can see another as blessed, that you must first know your Self to be holy before you can acknowledge holiness in another. A woman who truly understands that the purpose of relationship is not to have another who might complete you; but to have another with whom you might share your completeness. Most importantly, I am looking for someone who understands that at the critical junctures in a romantic relationship, there is only one question to ask - What would love do now?
Willingness to meet others from boM:  
I am comfortable with the person that i am and certain of the person that i want to be-life is about recreating your Self anew in the grandest version of the greatest vision ever you held about who You really are. I believe that nothing in my world is real, that the meaning of everything is the meaning I give it, that I am who I say I am and my experience is what I say it is.I know that I must be the change I wish to see in the world and that there is nothing I cannot be, there is nothing I cannot do, there is nothing I cannot have.


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