Open, friendly, easy going, curious, optimistic, playful, easy to talk to, good listener, communicative, intelligent, spontaneous, romantic, sensitive, supportive, trustworthy, respectful, monogamous, considerate, fun-loving, generous, affectionate, love to be active. Honest and direct, but considerate enough to always be graceous.
Things that have bothered me:
Prejudice, heavy insecurities, control freaks, people that are inconsiderate and not open to adventure. Please be willing to try and enjoy or push your level of comfort from time to time. Would you be willing to try eating frog legs, escargot, Stilton cheese, Durian, or something other than Mac n Cheese?
The real big disappointment is when people are not honest with their thoughts and expectations. I don't want to be reduced to mind reading and get it all wrong. With me you will know what I am thinking and feeling. I don't force my opinions on anyone, and believe in always being considerate. That is not the issue. I really just want to know the truth about you and what you think. You will get the same respect from me.
With online dating I've been practically raped by men who go straight to Sex talk. Why do so many of you men do that? Just because you read on my profile that I am a Big Lady, older, want to get married and sex is important to me does not mean I am desperate. It's not appropriate to talk to me about such things or ask me to send you pics of my upper and lower privates! It is completely disrespectful to me and very undesirable. This just lets me know that you are NOT the man for me.
I am looking for:
Open, friendly, easy going, curious, optimistic, playful, easy to talk to, good listener, communicative, intelligent, spontaneous, romantic, sensitive, supportive, considerate, fun loving, generous, affectionate, love to be active, dependable, trustworthy, monogamous, responsible. A Gentleman strong enough in character to enjoy being with a Large and Lovely Lady of quality. Okay, I know that sounds like I'm full of myself. I assure you I am not. I am Optimistic with Realist tendencies. I just want you to know that I am a Big Girl (BBW- Big Beautiful Woman) that is confident and comfortable in her own skin. I am happy with my life but always working on improvement. I'm looking for much the same in a man. Hoping to grow in Friendship slowly at first. Then when we both decide we want more it will happen naturally and respectfully.
My ideal relationship is where we both: 1) trust the other person completely; 2) highly respect one another; 3) are good friends; 4) enjoy each other’s company everyday, including constant craving of each other’s touch; 5) can naturally inspire each other to want to be the best we can be. If this appeals to your mind and your heart, then we should meet.
My funniest life experience:
Too many and I'm still collecting them! When we meet you can ask me again.
Cool Movies:
Too many to list.
My Favorite Groups are:
Jazz, R&B, Country, Folk, Rock - soft and hard, Classical, Opera, Contemporary, Alternative, Hip Hop, World - Bossa Nova, Mali, Raggae, Hawaiian, Instramentals (especially Asian instruments like Indonesian Gamelan, Japanese Shamisen/Goto/Taiko), French Cafe, anything my friends create! I like it all. Right now I really like Christopher Scott Hamilton. He has a very soulful voice and a way with the guitar that speaks to the heart of me. And George Straight wins my attention every time! ;)
I am looking for a personality like:
When someone truly listens actively and attentively to me it make me feel more at ease. When they get what I'm about and it rings complimentary with their soul then we both have smiles ear to ear! I can talk with anyone on just about any subject, small talk included. It's a benefit of being a military brat and having to make new friends every three years. You learn how to adjust and get out of your shell or you loose out on all the fun. Oh I never want to miss out on any fun!!
Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
Yes - I think we need to for the committment necessary in a strong and loving relationship, otherwise why be in a relationship if you are not willing to rise to the ocassion when necessary.
Willingness to meet others from boM:
I'm very willing and realistically hopeful. But you have to know this: I am NOT interested in one-night stands or phone/internet sex. I'm the Real Deal here looking for The Real Deal. Is that you? Then we should meet! ;) Fun is an absolute must! If sex is all you are after, then please keep moving along. Guys, here's a clue for those of you that just don't get it. I want Friendship first so please NO SEX TALK until it's right for both of us. That is like taking a woman out for coffee and RAPEING her right there at Starbucks! Women need warming up. It's called foreplay. I love giving foreplay just as much as I love receiving it! Hint!! If you are not up to taking the time for intelligent conversation and mutually fun activities, then you are not my kind of coffee and I am not yours. Take it slowly dudes.
Are you ready to start from scratch?
I am very open to starting new. I will relocate if it makes better sense. Nothing and no one is holding me back. "D'past is in D'past!" I'm ready. Hope you are too! But need to go slow and easy into Friendship and maybe more.
My typical day:
Whatever activities and adventures that Fabulous Man,that get's me and all my quirkiness, thinks up and is interested in doing with me would be perfect. I love being active and doing things outdoors. With my wonderful imagination and your love of activity we should be two happy campers.
My Wish List Includes:
To Do:
Scuba Diving, see the Northern Lights, visit Antartica, walk the Great Wall of China, visit Machu Pichu and the Nasca Lines, see Stonehenge, visit Easter Island, pilot a glider plane, go topless on Ipanema Beach (let me work out first!), dig for Diamonds in Arkansas, dig for Tourmalines at Pala Mines, own and enjoy a sail boat again some day soon, retire to a Tropical Island!
My Videos/Music/Other Content:
Religion Is Important to me.
I'm not Materialistic.
I Don't Smoke.
I Drink Sometimes.
I Don't Like Pets.
I Like To Travel.
I am an Active Person.
Sometimes I spend long hours at work.
I Am a Spontaneous Person.
Friends Are Important to me.
Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
I'm not that Stressed.
I sometimes try to stay in shape.
I want to get Married.
I Don't Want to have Kids.
Sometimes I can be stubborn.
Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
Sex Is Important to me.
I like a Clean Place.
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