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JULIANNA - Wishing you were 20 years younger and knew what you know now?
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| Anderson, Indiana Dating
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| Response Rate: 27%
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| I can be cute
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| Kinda skinny
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| Taurus
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| Caucasian
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| F
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| 47 years of age
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| N/A
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| 101 lbs - 110 lbs
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| 5'3 - 5'4
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| Single, with kids
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| I'd rather not say
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| Here For
Friends
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People say that I am:
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Before I answer this question, I have to say, since BOM decided to allow women to vote on photos of other women, it's impossible to get a decent rating. As if women giving me 1's and 2's is going to change the opinion of men who choose to look at my photo. So I don't get to be in the top 20, who cares. Women, GET A GRIP. This isn't a competition. PFFT! (okay they crack me up, the harder they try to keep you out of the top 20, the lower the score has to be to get there!! LOL)
A friend would describe me as someone who doesn't give up. I just keep beating that dead horse. LOL Sometimes they might say I have split personality too, I can be one person one minute and then another person the next, but I don't usually change my name. And it's not Julianna, and never was. ;) A friend would say that I'm too dang honest for my own good. But I feel if you can't deal with my honesty, you have your own issues to deal with.
I'm also a curious person, I ask a lot of questions, even the headline question I previously asked was just curiosity. I think it was misunderstood. It was a question of companionship, not sex. That is secondary to any relationship I would develop, I just wanna know if anyone would be that comfortable to just lay with me and talk about anything at all. And always I want people to talk to me on a variety of subjects, I have a lot to share and don't often get the opportunity. Judging by the current vota boma stats, men don't care to meet someone that actually thinks. Figures. Part of my personality is "hmmph"
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Things that have bothered me:
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I really hate it most when I feel like someone I'm with isn't wanting to be seen out with me. Don't keep me hidden away in the house with rented movies. Take me to the theater! Don't run to McDonald's and bring home take out, take me to the Outback! And for God's sake, don't lie to me about why we are staying in, I really hate lying, there's no reason for it. I'm a big girl, I CAN handle the truth!
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I am looking for:
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I lived for 20 years with a man that thought the best way to deal with me was to let me have my way on everything. The ultimate yes man. I don't want a yes man in my life. I want someone that will tell me no sometimes. I want one that when he says no, he really means, 'not your way' and is willing to discuss why it's not going to be my way and what we can do to make whatever we are discussing mutual to both of us. The big word here Compromise. It's something I've been learning about over the last year and I find it to be much more satisfying than me just getting what I want all the time. So the two qualities that a friend or partner has to have to keep us both happy is Honesty and the ability to Compromise.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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My foremost favorite music is country. Followed by classic rock and older pop 50's through the early 80's. Some of the music from the last 20 years is okay, but so much of it is remade music that I gave up listening to it.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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In the past, what personality traits in another person have helped you be yourself? Personalities are individual and different traits from different people will allow me to be at ease with them. But if they are quick to temper forget it, I can't spend all my time pacifying a bruised ego. Honesty is a big plus in my book. Sometimes honesty can be ugly, but it's so much easier to deal with than lies. If I can trust you to always be truthful with me, then trust me to not judge you harshly because I know it's not always easy to be honest.
What qualities about them made you feel at ease without worrying what to say or do? If a person that I'm talking with can laugh at themselves, I feel much more at ease because I feel I can then tease them because they don't take themselves so seriously that we can't entertain one another.
Also, what qualities do you possess that might help someone feel comfortable around you? I am open minded about most everything and there isn't a subject that I'm not willing to talk about. Just don't get personal with my sex life and we'll get along fine.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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Once upon a time I didn't know what compromise meant, I did compromise though in the past. For instance, I have always wanted to be a stay at home mom and take care of the kids. But my ex would get strapped on the finances and I would give up my motherly duties to go to work just to make him happy. Personally, I've never minded being poor. So I believe that this has been one of the biggest compromises I would consistently make. I'm ready for a lot of little ones. I'm tired of making all the decisions without input.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I have met several people from the internet and I think it's a great venue for meeting new friends. I have met a couple of people from this site outside of the internet and I know of at least one more here that I would love to be able to give a big hug to. Otherwise, I'm just here to make friends, and if we should ever happen to meet outside of the internet, I hope we can remain friends.
Just something I wanted to add here to for the honesty factor. I have had many people message me and tell me I have a nice smile, but in most of my pictures I don't smile. I'm more than willing to meet a lot of people as long as they understand that I have a temporary dental problem that I'm trying to remedy. So if I talk to you online, or even turn my cam on, don't expect to see a wide toothy smile. At least not until I get my dental work taken care of. There, no surprises from me. :)
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I think everytime you meet someone new, you are starting from scratch, seeing as you have no previous history with them. And I believe that relationships happen, you don't start them. Friends first and then what may come depends on how that friendship grows. People should always remember though, everyone has baggage, don't even message me thinking you have none and hoping I have none. If you've been living any kind of a life, you have things that you bring with you, good and bad, and a real friend deals with it.
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My Wish List Includes:
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My greatest desire is to travel. To visit strange and exotic places, and some not so strange. I wanna do some ghost hunting in the British Isles, explore pyramids in Egypt, visit Incan and Mayan villages in South America. But, please, skirt the Bermuda Triangle, I wanna arrive at my destinations!
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
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Lots of Stress in my life.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I sometimes want to get married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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I Am as Stubborn Person.
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Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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