KURSEDKREATURE seeks long term - I'm Not Looking for "Ms Perfect" just Ms Perfect f

Here's a lil story I read a long time ago, that I guess you could say, changed my life A friend of mine opened his wife's underwear drawer and picked up a silk paper wrapped package: "This, - he said - isn't any ordinary package." He unwrapped the box and stared at both the silk paper and the box. "She got this the first time we went to New York , 8 or 9 years ago. She has never put it on, was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is it. He got near the bed and placed the gift box next to the other clothings he was taking to the funeral house, his wife had just died. He turned to me and said: "Never save something for a special occasion. Every day in your life is a special occasion". I still think those words changed my life. Now I read more and clean less. I sit on the porch without worrying about anything. I spend more time with my family, and less at work. I understood that life should be a source of experience to be lived up to, not survived through. I no longer keep anything. I use crystal glasses every day I'll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if i feel like it. I don't save my special perfume for special occasions, I use it whenever I want to. The words "Someday." and "One Day." are fading away from my dictionary. If it's worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now. I don't know what my friend's wife would have done if she knew she wouldn't be there the next morning, this nobody can tell. I think she might have called her relatives and closest friends. She might call old friends to make peace over past quarrels. I'd like to think she would go out for Chinese, her favorite food. It's these small things that I would regret not doing, if I knew my time had come. I would regret it, because I would no longer see the friends I would meet, letters. that I wanted to write "One of these days". I would regret and feel sad, because I didn't say to my brother and sisters, son and daughters, not enough times at least, how much I love them. Now, I try not to delay, postpone or keep anything that could bring laughter and joy into our lives And, on each morning, I say to myself that this could be a special day Each day, each hour, each minute, is special. If all you're looking for is friends, or friends with benefits, MOVE ON. I have enough "friends", "pals", "buddies", and "chums". I am looking for the ONE. If you think there's a remote possibility you could be her, email me. If you don't, you're probably right. I'm looking for a Lady that likes to be treated like a Queen, but still knows how to act like a wench in the bedroom. A Lady that likes to ride horses and motorcycles and is comfortable doing it. A Lady that knows that Sexy is a state of mind, more than a look. A Lady that likes to have fun, but also knows when to be serious. A Lady that has confidence, without arrogance. A Lady that has no fear. A Lady that knows the meaning of Honesty. A Lady that is secure in herself, without being narcissistic. A Lady with intelligence, but can still laugh at redneck humor. A Lady that feels as comfortable at a Metallica concert, or a classical concert in the park, or anything in between. A Lady that feels as comfortable eating at McDonald's or a classy upscale restaurant. Oh, and one more thing NOT being PSYCHOTIC would help. As I said in my headline, NOT Ms. Perfect, just Ms. Perfect For Me. Too much to ask for?