Online Dating - LAVENDERROSE - Looking for friends looking for a possible relatio

Who I'd like to meet: Friends (someone I click with, with similar interests)(Anybody know Mandarin Chinese,I'm seriously wanting to learn!). - A guy to just date & do datey things, like dancing, movies, etc, (someone I click with, with similar interests). - My future husband: First of all, let me say, this is what I'm looking for in a guy - however, if you click, you click, & no matter what a person is looking for, sometimes what works is something else! I'm really looking for a good, kind, christian man (not perfect). He must be smart, & I very much prefer he be intelligent & not just in book knowledge, but also everyday smarts & common sense! A MAN who's intelligent, wise, good, kindhearted, with the right amount of bad mixed in (you know?) - now, that kind of man - WOW!!!! Also, I really hope that he is a good conversationalist (both ways), & would love for him to be intelligent! I require that he be responsible in $ & life. I don't want a boy, I want a MAN, not submissive, nor a control freak. I would like for him to be gentle, kind, caring, comforting, etc. I would prefer that he not to like horror movies, nor listen to hard/metal rock music. It's true that what you put into your mind stays there quite a long time & I try to put in better things than that. Who knows how to treat a lady right & can be treated right. Who treats all people (different people whether it be children / ethnicity / disabled / choices / etc.) with respect, kindness & common courtesy. Who isn't predjudiced (I hate any predjudism / crude jokes / etc.), who thinks & acts 50/50 equality. Looks & age don't matter near as much as the person inside! If we're in a relationship he must definitely be a 1 woman man as I am a 1 man woman. And I'm not looking for anyone to save me; we each have to make our lives what we want, though those we love truly add to our lives. No mind games! No lieing to me, he can lie in nice ways to others (your hat looks nice, etc.), but I don't want him lieing to me, not to spare my feelings / etc. (there's an exeption to every rule under the sun, but he would know when that very rare time would be & know that 95% of the time, I'm gonna know if he lies). I demand honesty: I'm so tired of guys who say & do anything they think I want, just to get me / etc. If you're not gonna be honest about who you really are, & your opinions, etc., please don't bother. I'm completely honest from the very beginning & expect the same! I don't care if we disagree on things, I just know that if you're not honest there's just no sense, because you're not allowing me to see who you really are. He can smoke, but prefer not regularly & something easy on the nose (like light cigar/etc). Definitely won't tolerate someone who drinks often or gets drunk, nor will I tolerate any drugs / any very destructive habits! Lastly, I really don't prefer rednecks, or people who revel in being ignorant, or outback / backwoods living, etc. My ideal place to live would be in a quiet neighborhood, with beautiful scenery, a creek/river, etc., & be just 30 minutes from big city amenities. I'd prefer the same type of guy. A guy who plays, etc., but likes to enjoy the city & life, someone who can ride a 4 wheeler or go to a nice restaurant, etc. And also, I'm very sorry & truly intend no offense, but I've been poor my entire life & I just don't want someone who's poor! I hope that he'll be able to provide for our family, our hobbies, vacations, etc., & that my income would just be extra. At the very least, I want him to have a stable job & a decent income. Of course I hope for a guy with imagination & something good going on in the bedroom, but he must respect & honor my decision to wait! Told you I speak my mind! Here's a list!: 1.He be a good, kind man that respects & treats all people & children, etc., right, who's not predjudiced, etc., not crude, & is mostly unselfish. 2.He & I really love each other & hopefully be in love. We be faithful, loving, devoted, loving, & loyal to each other. We have lots in common, similar personalities, & agree on movies, music, music, & much more. 3.He really know how to read me, talk to me, etc. 4.He be mature & responsible in $ & life! He be financially stable & hopefully have a lot of $ (don't need a billionare, just $ to be able to live great, get what we want, make sure our children have a great education, counseling, or whatever else they might need to be happy, healthy, educated, & know they can & will be a great success). Including vacations, Christmas, etc., & what I make is extra. 5.He have good & common sense. 6.He be gentle, kind, comforting, but knows when not to be. 7.(too personal 8.He be great at conversation & communication. 9.He can & does protect me, our family, & friends (doesn't matter if it's physical / verbal / mental, just so long as it works). 10.He knows he's incredibly lucky & blessed to have me & he truly cherishes me. He also only gets better & more wonderful with time & marriage. 11.He be very intelligent & learned & be able to converse on diverse topics, & topics important to him, topics important to me, topics important to others, & he be able to present the right & good views, even if they're "out of the box" & he is able to think "out of the box". 12.He knows how to work around my issues & can get rid of some of them. 13.He be loving & romantic. 14.We do some things together: we ballroom & swing dance together & we're quite good at it, we exercise & workout together (almost daily), we watch old & new movies together, & we often go on great / romantic dates (only together).