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People say that I am:
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First let me say that the guys in my photos are my little brother and little cuz at Easter this yearlol. I have just posted these pics less than 2 hours ago and was asked 3 times so far who the guys in the pics arelol. With that being said
Most of my friends describe me as very outgoing and fun to be around. I can make anyone smile no matter how grouchy they are. My friends also describe me as a very compassionate individual and willing to help anyone. That is why I chose a career as a police officer but when it was time to go to the academy I was told I was denied because I have a seizure disorder and have a seizure about twice a year.Then I chose a career as a paramedic and was denied for the same reason, I was told I could take my basic E.M.T course but it was unlikely that I would ever drive one of the ambulances. Emergency services is all I have ever wanted to do,so right now I am looking into central dispatch in this area. My friends will also tell you that I am stubborn about certain things-LOL such as all of that, I have had a dream of working in emergency services my whole life, and they do not understand why I will not give up on it-But the way I look at it is this way,if I have a passion for it I will be able to accomplish it SOMEHOW smile I know and am friends with most of the county officers and paramedics in this area(cause I use to work third shift at a gas station and they are based just up the road.) and they are all pulling for me and trying to pull as many strings as they can for me smile. So for now I just live vicariousley through my friends(the officers and medics in this area) They will also all say that I am all of the above things and they will tell you as well that I am very PIG-HEADED LOL
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Things that have bothered me:
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I have dated only a very few people since my childrens father and I split up after almost 12 years. They have all had their "little" quirks, but I can get past quirks-after all no one is perfect. It is when all of those "little" quirks become one big screwed up mess that things become difficult. I have only had 1 SERIOUS relationship since my kids dad and I split up 3 years ago and he did the unthinkable to me. He lied to me, cheated on me(with a 15 year-old) and the worst of all he made the statement that he hated my kids. That I would say is the biggest one because my kids are my life and every choice I make is based on their welfare, that is the reason he found his stuff packed on the porch when he got out of work the day he made that statement.
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I am looking for:
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Loyalty-trusting-honesty-and they HAVE to like kids.
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My funniest life experience:
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I'll have to REALLY get back with you on that lol, I have too many funny life experiences after-all if you can not laugh at yourself then how can you expect to make others laugh?
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Cool Movies:
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I like a lot of different movies and actors/actresses, but my favorites would have to be just about anything with Morgan Freeman,Drew Barrymore,Adam Sandler, or Sandra Bullock in it. Besides those I am into many other movies as well but it would just take too long to name them all.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I really like just about any kind of music-I have no actual preferences, but among my favorites are Ozzy Osbourne, Metallica, Shinedown, The wreckers, Hinder, The Doors, Brad Paisley, PaPa Roach, Skillet,Adema, Three Days Grace, The Beatles, Linkin Park, Limp Biskit, Korn, Rob Zombie,Chris Daughtry, Nickelback, Disturbed, Lynard Skynard, Pat Benetar, John Lennon, the Beach Boys,The Byrds,Toby Keith,Carrie Underwoodand many many more. I said I liked just about anything smile
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I am looking for a personality like:
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A good sense of humor is always the best thing to make me lighten up around anyone. I am pretty good at the humor thing and I am also good at coming up with good conversation, which is also something that is good for someone to posess to get me to open up a little. I will admit I am pretty quiet for the first few minutes, but as soon as I get talking I tend to loosen up quite a bit.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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I believe that all good relationships are a matter of compromise, push and pull, give and take,50/50 share and share alike. Without that it is more of a one-sided relationship than anything and those never turn out good at all.So I guess the answer to that would be yes.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I am willing to give anything a try, I am looking for someone who is good for me,and my children. I am not looking for a daddy for them(because their dad is still very involved in their lives)but someone they can look up to and depend on.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I have been ready to start from scratch with someone for a long time.I was single for 3 years when I found a very brief relationship(3 months) last summer. I am over the ex over any of the grief and ready to start something with someone who is *for real* I am sick to death of fake people and people who think they have to try to impress me with money or their physique or any other numerous things. The object of my affection need only to posess a good heart,soul, and as I said before they have to like children. While yes my children are my life I have plenty of room in my heart for one more and I am just waiting for that one other person to present himself.
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My typical day:
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A day in the life of me huh? LOL. Well I am going to have to say that my everyday life is not really that interesting at all. I get up in the morning about 6:30am,I get in the shower check my e-mail etc.Then I get my 2 children up for school around 7:30am,I help my daughter with her hair and all of that,then they get on the bus about 8am. I do my hair and my make-up and then start my day with any errands and things that need to be done around the house(today for instance laundry is on the agenda). I go to work about 2:30pm and get out about 10:30pm, get home hop online for a little while and go to bed. SNOOZE pretty boring huh lol.
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My Wish List Includes:
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My wish list is pretty simple and may seem petty to some. I want to be the best parent I can be. I hope to raise my children with the values my parents have instilled in me. I hope that my children become productive members of society and will have the ambitions the size of the highest mountains. They owe it to themselves to be all they can be and I hope they realize just how wonderful they are and do not take life for granted.That is my very simple yet complex wish list. That may seem to be a double negative using simple and complex in the same sentence the way I did, but if you think about it, you will realize just how true it is,espicially if you have kids.
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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Sometimes I like to travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends are somewhat important to me.
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I Don't Like having Competitive Partners.
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Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
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I'm not that Stressed.
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I sometimes try to stay in shape.
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I sometimes want to get married.
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Sometimes I feel that I would like to have kids.
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Sometimes I can be stubborn.
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Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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