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People say that I am:
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My friends would call my personality "GENUINE TO THE FAULT" because i don't fake it til i make it, if i like you i'm going to tell you and show you, if i don't like you i'm going to tell you as well as show you. My personality is a reflection upon the man i am to myself, and no one can change me for better or worse if i don't allow them too.
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Things that have bothered me:
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Well i've never been in a relationship nor have i ever dated anyone by choice because i decided when i was able to date that i wouldn't due to the fact that there are far too many people trying to validate themselves through multiple relationships and associations with other people, and that's not the life i feel i need to be living. I also feel that people don't respect relationships today the way they should, if you know that you're involved with someone already "ACT LIKE IT AND STOP LAYING UP WITH OTHER MEN AND WOMEN ON THE SIDE OR SHOULD I SAY THE DOWN LOW". I don't believe in lying, laying up with multiple people, compromising myself to have someone in my life, accepting disrespect from someone just to call them my friend. I'm a firm believer of "I CAN DO BAD OR GOOD BY MYSELF I DON'T NEED NO HELP TO START THE SHOW". If you're unhappy in your relationships or marriages end them before you go out looking for "DOWNLOW SEX WITH OTHER MEN AND WOMEN". I can respect any man or woman that can be honest with someone they're already with by telling them they're not happy and it's best they end the relationship before they end up going to someone else. Atleast you've put your significant other on notice that you're ready to leave the relationship due to your unhappiness, and if you can't work it out END IT RIGHT THEN AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIVES.
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I am looking for:
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The qualities i'm looking for in a friend is: Honesty, respect, loyalty, and a person that can be able to hold a direct conversation with me, as i would with them because i'm not afraid to ask anyone anything i'd like to know but i know how to ask them in a respectable manner as not to offend them. I don't look for anyone to be my friend for what they have monetarily, your money is your money and mines is mines! I don't care if you have money or not as long as you can respect me as i toward you, then we can get to know each other and develop a friendship. To all members that i may send an email to here, if you're not interested in developing a friendship with me that's fine, but do not send me any insecure replies telling me what or who you don't talk to here, and what you're only here for "I DON'T CARE TO KNOW THAT IF YOUR REPLY TO ME IS NOT OF INTEREST IN DEVELOPING A FRIENDSHIP WITH ME, SAVE YOUR INSECURITIES".
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I'm a big JAZZ LOVER! I'm into Al Jarreau, Nancy Wilson, Najee, Grover Washington, Kem, Steely Dan, the list can go on here when it comes to my love of JAZZ.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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I don't feel that another person has has helped me to be the person i am today, i've always been my own leader i've never felt the need to follow anyone, and my motto will always be: " I CAN NEVER MISS WHAT I'VE NEVER HAD" so when i meet someone i always give them the same respect that i expect in return and if i don't get that then i don't deal with that person any further. I have many qualities that i feel anyone would feel comfortable around me, and the main quality i feel i have is self respect and the fact that i'm very confident in myself and the way i'd treat someone i'd like to get to know and develop a friendship with.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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I'll have to say i'd consider compromising as long as it's not disrespecting me or what i've already told you i would not deal with or accept from the beginning of meeting you to develop a friendship with you.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I'm very willing to meet someone from this service as long as we first take the time to have some phone conversations or chat online by way of emails to get a real idea of who each other are and what we're really about. I've never felt that it's important to immediately meet anyone off of a phone or computer without first having an idea of who they really are and what they stand for.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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Not for me? i have no one to put behind me at all, i can develop new friendships everyday if i want to, because i know what i bring to the association with someone new, there's no one in my past i wish to forget because i took my time to get to know each person that i've ever associated with, so if you don't treat me the way i treat you then you'll be let go immediately and i will never call you again, but i will wish the best for you. I don't feel that anyone's too busy that they can't pick up the phone and say hello if they really wanted to be your friend or lover, if i have to be the one to call you in order to hear your voice, i'd rather not hear your voice and continue listening to my own, it probably would sound better anyway. LOL!
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My typical day:
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A day with me would be filled with nothing but good conversation about any topics of interest, also going to upscale restaurants i love doing that alot, i also love going to look at upscale homes in upscale neighborhoods at night just to have the enjoyment of the night and a good friend to enjoy that time with to see how others live. A day with me would be respectable, thoughtful, and well remembered i do believe that. Oh and i love giving massages to teach someone about their body, and i can massage a person's body for 5 hours without getting tired! LOL!
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My Wish List Includes:
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I look forward to helping the community by setting up a trust account that would benefit those that may need financial assistance when they're unable to pay their bills, rent, mortgage, or food. I'm very afraid of heights so i try to stay my a on the ground as much as possible LOL! i'm also now a personal jewelry designer, broker, and consultant, i've recently started my first ever online jewelry store and it's doing very well so far, i'm very appreciative and thankful to the people who've believed in my goods and services there. Should anyone want the web address to my website send me an email here and i'll give it to you.
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Don't Drink.
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I Like Pets.
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I Don't Like To Travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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I Spend Long Hours at My Job.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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I Like Competitive Partners.
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I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
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I'm not that Stressed.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I Don't Want to get Married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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I Am Not a Stubborn Person.
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I Do Not enjoy going to the Movies.
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Sometimes sex is important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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