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People say that I am:
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I'm fun, straight forward, somewhat moody at times. I can be emotional and giving, thoughtful and caring.
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Things that have bothered me:
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My recent split had to do with just wa y too many pets and a constant push for more pets and nothing but pets. And a lack of wanting to be involved with my family and grandchildren (I have two). I don't see them everyday but I want them to be comfortable and I want a comfortable interaction in family time which someone without children seems to have problems with. I've always had a pet well cared for and loved, or maybe even two but having more than you can handle is like having a housefull of kids. And I want to be able to go and do and perhaps take a cruise or visit friends at a distance. I want to come home and relax, not fend off the dog whose trying to eat my sandwich. I don't want to have to close doors to keep cats off my pillow or from nesting in my clothes I'm going to wear. I want love and a comfortable environment and I can do that by myself if I have to. I just think partnership in life is valuable and the best way to live.
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I am looking for:
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Qualities? Mostly someone who can be themselves and fit into my life with the same core values. You never know till you spend time with someone.
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My funniest life experience:
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m,funny? I did social work with children for my main career in life so there are many funny things that were said or done. It's hard to come up with a funniest. Plus my grandkids say funny things, like "nana, I didn't know Daddy was older than you?" Lmao, I have them convinced.
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Cool Movies:
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Bound is the most sensuous well written movie I've seen. I enjoy humor, mysterys, not much for all the loud car chasing and shoot em up with guns and jumping off buildings. Ugh.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I like it all, time and place for everything.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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I'm a giver in life and enjoy doing for those I love. Unfortunately most people push it to the inth degree and make it so that you have to know when to stop and I'd like someone who appreciated the care and concern and didn't take advantage. I would like to think that I am pretty easy to talk to or with and I enjoy getting to know about someone. I'm pretty up front with everything I do and say and I believe in finishing a conversation even if you have to agree to disagree. Too often people get exasperated for lack of ability to communicate and walk away unfinished or simply mad some folks have to get mad to even say what they want to say, and that is not in line with acceptable behaviors. I believe in communication, and generally if you can communicate, things work out for the best.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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Compromise, compromise, compromise? mm
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I really do want to meet a special person, I can live without it and until I do I can really enjoy friendships. It's mostly important online, I think, to be able to connect with people you can actually spend time with. Online is fun and I have many many online friends since that I correspond with and never met but I'd really like to meet people I can do things with. And it would sure be nice to meet someone special that would lead to long term.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I'm beginning again when it comes to a one on one. My recent partner and I were together about a year and a half and she's a wonderful person that will likely remain an acquaintance as the years go on but we have different long term agendas and we both recognize that. There are no regrets.
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My typical day:
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~I'm recently out of a long term relationship that ended comfortably for both of us but I'm moving on as we both should be. I work during the week and use my weekends for fun and leisure. I spend time at a beach condo about 10 minutes from here or just shopping and wandering in the area. I enjoy a day at the flea market or wandering at yard sales. I love an early morning coffee listening to the birds and watching the squirrels. I want a life of peace and joy and a partner who is willing to contribute in the same ways that I am.
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My Wish List Includes:
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I'm past the point in my life where I want to make the most money, be the manager, be the best, have the most toys.(although he who dies with the most toys wins!. lol) I'm just wanting to live a good and healthy life, hopefully with a good partner. Settling is just not in my vocabulary.
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I can be materialistic at times.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink.
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I Like Pets.
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Sometimes I like to travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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Sometimes I am a spontaneous person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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I Like Competitive Partners.
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I Like going to clubs/bars.
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I'm not that Stressed.
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I sometimes try to stay in shape.
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I Don't Want to get Married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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Sometimes I can be stubborn.
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Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
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Sometimes sex is important to me.
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Sometimes it's important to have a clean house.
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