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People say that I am:
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Intelligent, loving, compassionate, giving and passionate. I am spontaneous and funny. I have high standards for myself and expect those around me to have the same standards to always continue evolving in every facet of their lives. I will not settle and I am not desperate.
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Things that have bothered me:
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People who don't respect boundaries and personal beliefs. Dealbreakers - READ THIS PART CAREFULLY - No bible thumpers, scammers, con men, smokers or cat owners (allergies), drug users, more then occassional drinkers - life should be taken straight on, not altered, and people who are not local. DO NOT CONTACT me if you have not completed your profile or you do not have a pic, unless it is just as friends, and state that in your email. I am not into wasting time and reinventing the wheel to get a feel for who you are when you could have easily given up by answering these essays.
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I am looking for:
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I am looking for ambition, intellect, someone who wants the finer things in life and is balanced in their spirituality. I am a city dweller and I love Los Angeles, so as much as I hate cliches, the classic example is from Sex and the City I am Carrie Bradshawe looking for Mr. Big - that is as close as I can get less the Hollywood exaggeration of their characters. I get along best with men who are entrepreneurial or have intellectually demanding careers, I need to be intrigued, daily. I prefer to date men who are taller then I am, because I like to wear heels. I don't have chemisty with men who are not well groomed - no mountain men, classic harley guy look or long hair. I am also not interested in dating men I could have given birth to, it makes it uncomfortable for my adult children. If your location is not near Los Angeles and you spend at least 50% of your time in Los Angeles, please note that in your email - or don't be surprised if your response is deleted.
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My funniest life experience:
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I was meeting a blind date downtown on top of one of the tallest buildings so the elevator ride was a long one. A good looking fun guy gets on the elevator with me, it was crowded, he turned around to face the front, and I wanted to check out his butt. So I discreetly attempted to pick up his jacket, he caught me and we laughed. Then when I get to the restaurant, I realize he is my blind date - it was a great relationship until he moved to New York City.
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Cool Movies:
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Bladerunner, Apocalypse Now, 40 Year old Virgin, Wedding Crashers, Bull Durhna, spy movies, some musicals.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I like all kinds of music except jazz and most rap. My Ipod is filled with all types of music and most people who look at it see a very eclectic mix. So since I love live music you should be as comfortable in a tuxedo on opening night at the opera as in blue jeans for a night at the Hollywood Bowl.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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Personality traits that I look for in potential relationships are intellect, sense of humor, an understanding of spirituality, tolerance, generosity of spirit and compassion. The qualities I believe I possess in making others feel at ease are the same plus I am a nuturer, no matter if I try to block it.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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It depends. I will not compromise my ethics or morals. I will compromise on where to eat, what movie to see, things that are not in opposition to the essence of my being.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I am very willing. I have met people from the internet in the past. I am looking for a long term relationship or friends. I don't want to waste my time, so if you are looking for a friend with benefits or anything that is close to that description, move on.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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This is a weird question. I have a life, so starting from scratch seems to imply that I would let my friends and family go I am not willing to do that, those people are the loves of my life. I am looking for someone to fit in to what is already here, hoping that fits into their life as well.
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My typical day:
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I love Los Angeles - I am a city person and do not see a scenario where I would relocate,so a fellow city dweller would be best. A hike/walk and then a good meal or a visit to a live performance are all great dates. The perfect date is when conversation flows and the two people involved make every attempt to try and get to know each other.
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My Wish List Includes:
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I would love to travel more. I don't operate out of much fear, the only thing that stops me from doing things is limited financial resources. If I want to do something, I have usually found a way. I can't even fathom not doing something out of fear. My wish list is much more about the people I get to spend time with rather then any specific activity we participate in.
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Don't Drink.
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I Like Pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
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My life is somewhat stressfull.
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I sometimes try to stay in shape.
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I Don't Want to get Married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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I Am Not a Stubborn Person.
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I Love going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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