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People say that I am:
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i think they would say i am fun and loyal and just great to be with. I listen and i try not to judge. They say i am a good person and any guy who gets me is very lucky(their words not mine). I have a great sense of humour and i sure seem to love people. They also say i sometimes give my heart away too easily and i should guard it more and be less trusting. By and large i think they would say i am a pretty great lady and a wonderful mum.
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Things that have bothered me:
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the lies and the games and the lack of communication. I don't lie, i won't play games and i think that communication is paramount to the success of any relationship.
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I am looking for:
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loyalty,fun loving, not taking themselves too seriously,a great sense of humour, loves life and wants to feel "alive". A half full rather than a half empty sort of person. Someone to lean on and can lean on me when necessary. Not afraid to admit if they are wrong and to be able to say they are sorry. Be happy staying home and watching a movie or just talking or going out and getting down and having fun in a group.sort of being able to be flexible and roll with the punches and not to say see ya at the first sign that things aren't perfect. To stay and figure out what is wrong and try to fix it.TRUST IS A HUGE ISSUE .i want them to trust me and i have to be able to trust them.
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My funniest life experience:
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h mm i have a few but i don't think this is the place to talk about them.wait till we have coffee or a few dates or at least time together.
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Cool Movies:
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(i am an incurable romantic.) Bridges of madison county, sleepless in seattle,love actually,meet jo black,and then there are ones like finding nemo, lady and the tramp,pretty woman,bridget jones diary, phantom of the opera. I love most romantic movies(comedy or drama). I don't like really scary movies or slasher type films. I like a good mystery and i think that hitch was a master of mystery.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I love most types of music except heavy metal and rap. i love classical, Rock and roll,jazz, country(not so much the old country but the new stuff)easy listening. It depends on what i am doing and what sort of mood i am in.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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this is a feeling and so is very hard to write about. I just feel comfortable and i guess on an equal playing field and to be treated as an equal is something i try to do and expect the same in return.If i feel i am being judged or looked down on as a lesser being - that makes me feel uncomfortable so once again just to be able to be me and be accepted for who i am rahter than who they think i should be.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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i am willing to compromise.that is one of the biggest requirements in any sort of relationship. I guess the biggest one would be around my kids and sharing them with their dad.While i feel it is so important for both the kids and their dad to see each other and really know one another it is hard at times (christmas for one)to share them, but i do and i always have.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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Of course i am willing to meet people from this service. I have met a few men from different sites( heck i even married onethat was a disaster and we are now separated on our way to getting divorced)I have had a relationship with another fellow and it is over but we remain good friends.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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we all have baggage- if we know what it is we have it. I am looking to move on and i very much want a new relationship. A new beginning with the last love of my life is what i am ideally looking for. I am also realistic enough to know that i may be at this awhile before i meet "the one". I am willing to put myself out there and possibly be hurt if in the end i find the happiness i deserve.
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My typical day:
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well first off i am more of a night owl than a morning person so getting up isnt the highlight of my day. Unless i have something or someone to get up for!!!!I get my child opff to school and then clean up the kitchen, shower and go to work. When i get home i make dinner usually get on the comp and check my e-mail, make some phone calls( love talking to my 2 year old grandson)perhaps watch a bit of tv, get ready for bed and read for an hour or so (book,mag or newspaper) and off to lala land. Those are the work days. on days off i get up when i wake up, make coffee, go on the comp. make breakfast, take the dog for a walk,do some housework,the usual cleaning and preparing of meals,and all the "fun stuff". Oh the dog gets a walk on work days as well but as my work schedule is all over the map i take her when i can.I go to lunch or dinner with friends, sometimes a show just regular life things. In the summer i took up hiking and i am looking forward to doing more next spring.If and when my daughter is actually home sometimes we play games together. thats about it.
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My Wish List Includes:
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wish list.i want to travel to italyi want to climb the keyhole in my area,i want to learn italian,i would love to have a huge kitchen so i could create wonderful feasts for my family and friends. i would love to take a long trip on a motorcycle and swim in the mediterranean and go back to new zealand and aruba. I would love to see if i have the nerve to fly in a helicopter or a seater plane.Iwant to go horse back riding again. I would love to have a place where i can hace a backyard and a big dog and maybe a horsei want to live long and healthy enough to enjoy all my kids and their kids when they have them. I want to travel across this majestic country of ours and put my toe in each ocean.
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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Sometimes I am a spontaneous person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
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My life is somewhat stressfull.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I sometimes want to get married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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Sometimes I can be stubborn.
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I Love going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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