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| San Jose, California Dating
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| Response Rate: 37%
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| I'm healthy looking
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| Curvy, baby, I'm curvy!
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| Leo
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| Caucasian
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| F
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| 48 years of age
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| N/A
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| 181 lbs - 190 lbs
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| 6'1 - 6'2
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| Separated
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| Artist
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| 35k-44k
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| Here For
Dating
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People say that I am:
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My friends think I am smart and funny-I always seem to have them laughing! I like to know about them and their loved ones and am someone who is there for a friend. I am good at listening and if a friend wants advice I try to give some options in a simple way so they can decide for themselves what it is they want. I don't make a lot of female friends, but the few I do have are very special to me. I am very honest about EVERYTHING, though don't go so far as to hurt anyone with brutal truth. I always strive to find a way to be sensitive and caring. I am very laid back and hard to upset, so the men I know don't have to be on their best behavior 100% of the time, though I do appreciate their being good some of the time. I am very comfortable around people and love their different characters and personalities. I am curious about them and often ask about their families of origin and find out how they were raised, whether they had brothers or sisters, their birth order, and more. I guess I am a student of real sociology!
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Things that have bothered me:
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The men I have dated have not had as much in common with me as it seemed in the beginning. I really think we would do better with common interests! I am very artistic and a lover of nature. I pay close attention to the smallest details of a rock or flower, bug or leaf, and have a hard time rushing by something that may catch my interest. Luckily I usually can carry these small treasures for later inspection or collection! I like to slow down when we travel and may like to stop in an obscure town or stop on the side of a country road to picnic on the tailgate-something simple but great at just the right time of day and in the right company.
I think the one thing I have noticed lately is that men who have not married or had children may have a lot of time but seem quite wrapped up with the lives they lead, even though to me they seem rather empty. They get stuck wanting to do their own thing and don't want to talk about plans with another person. I would like to find someone who would call me or think of me as often as I think of him.
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I am looking for:
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I am looking for a TALL,LOCAL man who loves nature, whether in the country, at the beach, or even just in a backyard! I want to find someone who is open to the the joys of knowing people of all ages, from the very young to the very old. If he has children, I hope he loves them a lot and stays active in their lives in some special ways. If our relationship is very special and lasting, I want the man in my life to know and appreciate the people in my life. He should be open emotionally and hopefully ready for a great, fun friendship and ultimately a passionate lover. He should be open to exploring the world and all that is natural and healthy.friendship, love, sex, and more. I am not in a hurry to begin a live-in relationship or marriage, but a close and loving relationship is what I am hoping to find.
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My funniest life experience:
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I laugh at the strangest things! Like I said, I am not easily upset. The other day I was sitting on my bed and my little Grandson came into the room with a small, unopened container of yogurt. I decided that I would let him eat it if he sat on the bed, since he isn't supposed to be eating in the bedrooms because we have new carpets and want to take good care of them. He was sitting on the bed, eating, when he lost his balance and fell backwards, landing hard on the floor. The whole thing struck me as funny. the way he fell (he was fine) the look on his face, like he was probably in trouble. the yogurt all over the rug and walls, and especially the sound I heard when all that yogurt splattered on everything. The sound alone had me in stitches. Besides, sometimes when the "worst" thing happens, I just can't be negative. It's obvious I don't want yogurt all over the room, but there it is, so we'll deal with it. That's why I have dogs!!! I am sure this isn't the funniest thing that ever happened, not even close, but just an example of the way I am in life.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I like almost all rock music from the 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's, to new rock. A few favorites are Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Doors, Jimi Hendrix, The Stones, The Beatles, The Eagles, Santana. I'm not a big fan of too much "Pop" music. Alt Rock, I love a lot, but not rap. I do like Jazz when in the mood and stuff that isn't as easy to catagorize- Norah Jones, Enya, and more. I even like classical piano sometimes. I play keyboards but not very well.I would love to learn guitar, and would appreciate the musical gifts of a partner.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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I have gotten together several times with men I have "met" online and always surprised both of us with my being very relaxed from the beginning. Each time I have learned some basics online, then we have talked on the phone a time or two, at least, so for him to just try to relax and be himself is the best. I am looking for someone who will respond favorably to me and be able to be relaxed and comfortable being whoever he really is. I am open to many ideas and really difficult to offend, unless one is really rude or obnoxious! I accept all kinds of people and though I admit I may be a people watcher, don't ever like to make fun of anyone. I hope this might help a man to know I will be accepting of him and his unique traits and talents, whatever they are. I truly do love to meet and talk to all kinds of people and believe the world is a richer place with diversity of personalities and interests.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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I always try to compromise. I have learned to communicate and hope to have the opportunity to know a man who is also able to speak respectfully about what he is thinking and who knows how to really listen. I don't have a specific example, because I usually am so easy to please, but won't be walked on, either.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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I am willing to meet a man who I like from online talk and who I have spoken to on the phone, if he meets certain criteria. I am looking for a TALL, single man who is looking for friendship and love, but not in a big hurry to make a commitment like living together or marriage. I would like to find a parter who is comfortable and secure enough to spend some time apart without suspicion or jealousy. I want someone to laugh with, to talk to, to do things with, hang out, sleep with, make love. I want love and trust without jealousy or worry. I want commitment from the heart of the right man and to know he will be with me because he wants to be with me, to trust that I want to be with him with all my heart. I want to know we are worth the effort it can take to keep a relationship alive and healthy. So I am looking to meet someone, but it has to be fun, too.I think people who can laugh together at anything and everything can make it in the world, together.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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I want to stay in my own home for awhile, so I am not looking to relocate or begin a new household with a new man in my life. I am not saying I wouldn't possibly move in that direction at some point, but want to work on my art and at making a decent living. I am not wanting to be rescued or supported financially because I feel like I want to stand on my own now. This will make me a more proud and confident woman in the future. I need to finalize my divorce, so I am looking for closure there.
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My typical day:
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I like to meet a man for a simple time like coffee, an informal lunch, a picnic in a park, anything easy, inexpensive and that gives us time and is quiet enough for us to talk. I don't mind meeting for a drink on occasion, though don't enjoy shouting to be heard. Sitting out of direct range of the speakers helps, though sometimes noise can also give me a chance to lean in to talk right into the ear of the right match. I can't say that wouldn't be a good way to scoot a little closer and get a real idea of how much I like a you!
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My Wish List Includes:
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I would like to go on some roadtrips-ride in some fast cars, on motorcycles-a Harley could be great! I would like try things like going for a glider ride, getting some horses to ride on the beach, or going snorkeling together to enjoy the beautiful, free, tropical fish and living reefs. I would like to learn some new art and craft ideas and do more woodworking-design and build some more furniture, work on a house with someone who can teach me some new skills or learn alongside me. I want to live in the country or at least visit often. Stargazing with someone special, far from the city lights is heavenly!
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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Sometimes I like to travel.
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Sometimes I am an active person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
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I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
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I'm not that Stressed.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I Don't Want to get Married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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Sometimes I can be stubborn.
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Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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