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People say that I am:
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Spontaneous, caring, positive, always up for an adventure. My friends would say that I go with my gut and when I make a decision, I stick to it. I don't like to go backwards - I am always moving forward and I love change! My family is very important to me - I will respect you and yours and I expect the same from the person that I am with. I am very protective of my children - no one knows what our family (my kids) have been through - through all the challenges - they are wonderful, caring, compassionate kids! They are like their mother - passionate for what they believe in! You know how it goes.the apple doesn't fall far from the tree hehehe.
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Things that have bothered me:
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I find out after about 3 months (most of the time much earlier) who they really are. Most people can only pretend so long then they give themselves away, unless they are a saleman - lol - basically no BS please - be real!
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I am looking for:
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Truly compassionate, caring, understands what it's like to have kids and accept them for who they are and love them anyway. lol Someone that accepts me for who I am and loves me anyway!! Remember the most important things in life aren't things!!
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Cool Movies:
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Something's Gotta Give, Must Love Dogs, Pretty Woman
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My Favorite Groups are:
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I love country rock and contemporary christian. I like all kind of music - even rap cause my teenagers listen to it.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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I think in life you meet people to learn something about them in turn you learn something about yourself whether it be negative or positive. I say what I think and I listen well. I have been through alot in my life and learned from all of it. I believe in new beginnings - I am always up for change. If you are not changing you are not growing. I believe I am a good encourager - nothing is impossible. Our mind is our worst enemy - positive thoughts - positive results. I would like to find someone that is open and honest and up for anything and takes the happy times with the challenging times.
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Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
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I believe compromising only goes so far - you need to learn that sometimes you must agree to disagree. If you don't agree sometimes you need to give in just because it's important to the other person so it should be important to you and definitely vise versa. And sometimes you just need to walk away and let that person find the lesson themself and that could be the best thing for them. A relationship need not be a job - I already have one!!
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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There is always a chance - I came upon this site by accident, you never know. I have met others from other sites - made some friends - but no lovers yet. I would like to meet my friend and my lover. "HOPE - is not pretending that there's never any sorrow. It's the knowledge that our challenges will be overcome tomorrow. It's the inner strength we call on to sustain us now and then. Till our challenges lie behind us and we're happy once again. HAVE FAITH!!"
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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It is challenging to start from scratch but I am up for the challenge! Everything in my past stays there I very seldom look back - it's not productive and who wants to live in the past.
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My typical day:
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I wake up my teenage boys feed them and get them off to the bus. Get ready for work - I work for a law firm in Merrillville for an employer that I absolutely adore - cause he's a good attorney. I am a paralegal/legal assistant. Come home a 5 - workout/yoga/pilates make dinner - then relax. I usually read before I go to bed. I am reading Celestine Prophecy and God's Creative Power.
Bed usually by 11.
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My Wish List Includes:
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I would like to travel but not necessary out of the country. There is so much to see in the United States. I would love to go out west. There is really nothing that I am scared of - use to be scared of flying but got over that years ago. I am not crazy about deep water - maybe that is why I don't want to leave the US lol
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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Sometimes I like pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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Sometimes I spend long hours at work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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I Don't Like having Competitive Partners.
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I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
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My life is somewhat stressfull.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I sometimes want to get married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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Sometimes I can be stubborn.
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I Love going to the Movies.
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Sometimes sex is important to me.
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I like a Clean Place.
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