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ALWAYSENJOYIT - Thank you for shopping at Alwaysenjoyit. If you are looking for passion, fun and intellectual stimulation, you have come to the right profile!
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| SAN DIEGO, California
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| Response Rate: 0%
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| Above average
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| Toned, I keep fit
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| Pisces
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| Caucasian
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| M
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| 40 years of age
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| 5'7 - 5'8
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| Married
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| Marketing Director
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| Here For
Hang Out Fun
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People say that I am:
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Hello, I'm an unusually analytical, intellectual, hedonistic, Jewish Atheist that is living a simultaneously conventional and unconventional life. Put another way, I'm a rebel with limits. Moreover, I'm quite interesting, kind, respectful, considerate, funny, great company and thrive on putting people at ease. I am drama-free (but not comedy-free). You could also say (and get no argument from me) I'm down to earth, adventurous, hyper-educated, passionate, respectful/well-mannered/polite, well-preserved, friendly, funny, quirky, fun-loving, thoughtful, caring, honest, non-conformist, curious, intuitive, and sensual. If you wanted to add that I'm an unusually good-looking fellow, I might even buy you a drink.
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I am looking for:
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Likes: Intelligence, honesty, originality, thoughtfulness, rationality, openess, beauty, independence, internal locus of control, sense of humor, vivacity, kindness, optimism.
Dislikes: prejudice, & racism, stupidity, dishonesty, rudeness, cruelty, flakiness, religious fundamentalism, closed/narrow-mindedness
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My funniest life experience:
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I've got many I will be happy to share in person.
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Cool Movies:
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This is Spinal Tap, The Godfather, The Graduate, Annie Hall, Fast Times at Ridgemont High are five that come to mind off the top of my head. Relatively recently, I really enjoyed Revolutionary Road, Juno, No Country for Old Men, Sweeney Todd and There will be Blood.
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My Favorite Groups are:
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The Beatles, Billy Joel, Elvis Costello, They Might be Giants, Queen, the Who, the Kinks, Elton John, Paul Simon, Harry Nillson, Steely Dan, Prince, AC DC, Elton John, Neil Diamond, Weezer and a lot of other stuff including show tunes.
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I am looking for a personality like:
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I don't want to put too many parameters on what I am looking for on this site (because you never know), but my goal is to meet only nice, down-to earth, disease-free, and subjectively attractive women for friendship, socializing and the opportunity for new erotic experiences. I DO NOT want to interact with FLAKES. My free time (like yours no doubt) is too precious for last minute cancellations or plans that are more likely to change than to remain.
I also don't like long cyber communication. If I like your profile, then I am happy to throw caution to the wind and meet in person. I would rather have an awkward dinner where I am fixated on how I can leave as soon as possible (but still learn a little more about the human species) than a pleasant three month pen-pal relationship.
I love sex (and sensuality) but have limits on my level of adventure. I'm not particularly kinky outside of my comfort with multiple partners (concurrent or simultaneous). I'm not into anal sex, S&M (a little bondage doesn't scare me, however), or anything that is about pain or degradation (I can get enough of that at work). I really enjoy sensuality, flirting, kissing, oral sex, and prefer slower, more sensuous sexual experiences versus anonymous, super-aggressive o sex. That noted, I am rather versatile and get the most excitement out of pleasing my partner, so if it works for you, there's a good chance I will enjoy it. Good kissing is central to escalation.
I like to meet for drinks or dinner. I like to chat and get to know someone new beyond a superficial level. If chemistry and trust are established, then I am open to the evening continuing. I'm a no-pressure person. If at any point, either of us feels like calling it a night, that's fine. All in all, I like to try to let things come naturally.
My ideal is to make real friends with exceptional benefits for ongoing intellectual and physical good times. But making good friends without benefits is nice and enjoying benefits without becoming friends is also nothing to shake a stick at. As long as safety is factored, I don't shy away from pleasure.
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Willingness to meet others from boM:
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Very and many times.
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Are you ready to start from scratch?
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Warning: The next paragraph requires thinking outside of the box:
My unconventional life.I also happen to be a happily married man who has been so for fourteen years. We have a solid and open relationship which my wife would be happy to confirm. She too has the same freedoms that I enjoy so there is no double standard. We happen to believe that traditional monogamous relationships are less than ideal. I do hold the commitment of marriage in high esteem and think it's preferred to have a partner for the long haul, but I just don't believe monogamy is natural or leads to happiness. A spouse isn't expected to be the sole provider of other kinds of stimulation (intellectual, friendship, love, etc.), so it is irrational for sex to be singled out. Plus, I greatly dislike artificial and illogical limitations. I want the largest, most fulfilling life I can have. Don't you?
I would argue the best kinds of marital (or any) relationships are built on trust and respect. Basically, an ideal marriage is like having a best friend/partner with benefits. The truth is, after more than fourteen years of being married (in my case), the friendship/partnership remains strong but those benefits are much less important/interesting/frequent/passionate than they were in the beginning. That's natural and I think anybody that expects to have a lifetime of passion with one person is naive and likely in for significant disappointment.
Note: When factoring the years before marriage, my wife and I practiced monogamy for our first ten year together (and in that time neither of us ever made an exception as we played by the agreed upon rules). Our non-monogamous era has been the last seven or so years. The reason I mention this is I have extensive experience with both monogamy and non-monogamy and thus have a uniquely credible vantage point.
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My typical day:
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Hello, I'm an unusually analytical, intellectual, hedonistic, Jewish Atheist that is living a simultaneously conventional and unconventional life. Put another way, I'm a rebel with limits. Moreover, I'm quite interesting, kind, respectful, considerate, funny, great company and thrive on putting people at ease. I am drama-free (but not comedy-free). You could also say (and get no argument from me) I'm down to earth, adventurous, hyper-educated, passionate, respectful/well-mannered/polite, well-preserved, friendly, funny, quirky, fun-loving, thoughtful, caring, honest, non-conformist, curious, intuitive, and sensual. If you wanted to add that I'm an unusually good-looking fellow, I might even buy you a drink.
NOTE: Warning: The next paragraph requires thinking outside of the box:
My unconventional life.I also happen to be a happily married man who has been so for fourteen years. We have a solid and open relationship which my wife would be happy to confirm. She too has the same freedoms that I enjoy so there is no double standard. We happen to believe that traditional monogamous relationships are less than ideal. I do hold the commitment of marriage in high esteem and think it's preferred to have a partner for the long haul, but I just don't believe monogamy is natural or leads to happiness. A spouse isn't expected to be the sole provider of other kinds of stimulation (intellectual, friendship, love, etc.), so it is irrational for sex to be singled out. Plus, I greatly dislike artificial and illogical limitations. I want the largest, most fulfilling life I can have. Don't you?
I would argue the best kinds of marital (or any) relationships are built on trust and respect. Basically, an ideal marriage is like having a best friend/partner with benefits. The truth is, after more than fourteen years of being married (in my case), the friendship/partnership remains strong but those benefits are much less important/interesting/frequent/passionate than they were in the beginning. That's natural and I think anybody that expects to have a lifetime of passion with one person is naive and likely in for significant disappointment.
Note: When factoring the years before marriage, my wife and I practiced monogamy for our first ten year together (and in that time neither of us ever made an exception as we played by the agreed upon rules). Our non-monogamous era has been the last seven or so years. The reason I mention this is I have extensive experience with both monogamy and non-monogamy and thus have a uniquely credible vantage point.
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Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
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I'm not Materialistic.
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I Don't Smoke.
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I Drink Sometimes.
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I Like Pets.
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I Like To Travel.
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I am an Active Person.
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I Don't spend long hours at Work.
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I Am a Spontaneous Person.
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Friends Are Important to me.
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I Don't Like having Competitive Partners.
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I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
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I'm not that Stressed.
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I Try to stay in Shape.
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I Don't Want to get Married.
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I Don't Want to have Kids.
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I Am Not a Stubborn Person.
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I Love going to the Movies.
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Sex Is Important to me.
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My House is Not that Clean.
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