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I can be a little shy at first but I open up once I am comfortable with the person. I love to laugh and have fun; life is too short to be serious all the time.I just wanted to try something new. Tired of meeting cute guys and finding out they are married! I am a nice girl who loves to smile, and it is not into the club scene, so I am seeing what this will get me! I have a lot to give and I just want someone to share it with.Let's see. I don't think I'm gorgeous, but I do think I am cute. I have met a couple people from online and they have told me that my pictures don't do me justice so I guess I take bad pictures. I am really honest. Please don't ask me a question that you don't really want to know the answer to. Sometimes my honesty gets me in to trouble but I deal with it. I tend to be a bit of a flirt. I love to dance.I don't smoke and would prefer someone who doesn't smoke either. I have one tattoo and I am a grad student and work full-time. I listen to just about every type of music. I love movies, cookbooks, seeing bands, being in the water, going out and even staying in and having a movie night, staying in bed all day and talking, watching movies, listening to music, reading and just being with that special someone. I am a single, black woman, seeking a SINGLE, WHITE MAN. I see in the ads, that guys are looking for that one special woman, with a great smile, brains and of course the great body! Well let me just say, some of us don't have that perfect body (and by the way... do you?) but some of us are great women... So why not try and broaden your views of what is attractive?? And let me just say this and get it out of the way... for all those that have an issue with me deciding to date white guys, its just that... YOUR ISSUE!! (So, don't bother writing to me if you disagree with my choice, its MY life and MY choice! We all have our preferences!) I think ALL men are beautiful, but I like what I like. I am an attractive, intelligent, articulate, independent woman. And yes, I am THICK/BBW (Big Beautiful Woman... actually, been working out and losing weight, so I am slimming down quite a bit) and a sassy one at that! I don't take drugs and I am not a gold-digger! I do have a job, my own place, no kids and no pets. I have a healthy sense of humor, love to laugh, love animals and kids and life in general. I am not afraid to speak my mind and I would like to find a man that can speak his mind as well. A special someone comes in all shapes and sizes and backgrounds and so on... I am not perfect, I am a work in progress though. I know my flaws and I can accept them. That being said, I also know that I am a good person and a HEUVA woman! I have a lot to offer the right man. Life is precious and I would like the chance to share it with someone that I care about and that is very special to me! So staying in and making dinner together and watching movies until late night or going out to hear a live band, are just a couple of things I enjoy doing. Yes, I will admit that I can be sarcastic and a bit of a smarta**, but I DO have a good heart and always give it to you unconditionally! So, if you are up for the challenge... I welcome an e-mail from you. I do hope to hear from you soon! So, to all those men seeking a good woman... well here I am... take a chance, you will be glad you did! My match...h mm.... Well, basically, I would like to find someone that is AVAILABLE (in more ways then one... if you don't know what I mean, then ask!) intelligent; funny; a good communicator; a NICE SMILE; good sense of humor (its REALLY important to me); kind; caring; LOYAL; taller then me(5'9" or taller (BUT if you are not... its NOT a deal breaker!; likes to have fun... whatever it is; can carry on a conversation; likes to cook or will at least cook with me; likes music; is comfortable being out on the town or at home on the couch with a movie;just basically a good guy, so that he can be my King and I his Queen!