CURIOUSELF - Magickal drum rhythms fill the air with pulsing energy.Wandering through the masses of mingling Witches and Elves,I'm stopped by your eyes. I approach in the dancing firelight,take your hand and,our gaze locked,gently kiss your wrist."Merry Meet,Milady"..
A friend might describe me as mischievous and playful, odd and inspiring, protective of and empowering to others. True gemini.
Things that have bothered me:
Possessive tendency is one of the main things that troubles me; expecting me to disregard other people because "you are now in my life" will only result in frustration and disappointment for you.I'm not talking about open relationships; I'm talking about friends in my life or people in social situations. "Chameleon personality" is also not good; if you have to become the people around you, then your character is too weak. Find the strength to be you. Inability to admit mistakes. If you are wrong, admit it, apologize for it. Crow never has a good flavor; but, if I can choke it down when I'm wrong, so can you.
My Favorite Groups are:
The music to which I listen tends to be world music. My favorite band is Elvendrums; they blend instruments, rhythms and vocals from all over the world to give all Otherkin a voice. My favorite music, however, is the music made with others. There just is no comparison to playing a drum or flute with a circle of people and their instruments.
I am looking for a personality like:
Back in highschool, my son's mother helped me begin learning myself. She had a fearless and ferocious individuality that I wanted. She set an example for me which I altered to fit what was comfortable to me; I continue to learn who I am every day. Often, people tell me that I have a gentle energy which helps others relax in my presence. I am not judgemental and have an interest in what makes others who they are, and who they are is okay even if they won't accept me in return. I like who I am; and, comfortable with myself, I wear kilts, puffy shirts, tabi socks and sandals, hakama pants, leather doublets, jewelry in my hair, broomstick skirts, carry a shoulderbag when I've brought too much stuff, bow when greeting people, and meditate in public. If you can't be yourself around *me*, who *will* you?
Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
People often mistake sacrifice for compromise. Sacrifice will always come around to resentment; compromise is willingness to concede some terms to make a more balanced situation out of respect for the other party or the situation which will improve if the compromise is completed. A compromise will always be voluntary. Sacrifice occurs when the will to concede something does not exist.
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Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
I'm not Materialistic.
I Don't Smoke.
I Drink Sometimes.
I Like Pets.
Sometimes I like to travel.
I am an Active Person.
Sometimes I spend long hours at work.
Sometimes I am a spontaneous person.
Friends Are Important to me.
Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
My life is somewhat stressfull.
I sometimes try to stay in shape.
I sometimes want to get married.
I Don't Want to have Kids.
Sometimes I can be stubborn.
Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
Sex Is Important to me.
I like a Clean Place.
Note: Bold & Larger Text Represent More Important Qualities To This User.
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