I'm shy, very reclusive but when I warm up to people, I'm goofy, I'm always very kind to new people and I strive to be a very nice person. Of course I get angry sometimes, who doesn't? I'm only human.
Things that have bothered me:
I've always been bothered by selfishness, the overly dramatic, the mean spirited, the constantly complaining, and of course, the chronic cheater and the constantly confused. All of those, minus the cheating of course, are acceptable in small doses, because no one is perfect after all. And everyone has room to grown. I know I have a ton of room to grow. But I just hate when people get so absorbed with themselves that they fail to even try to understand the feelings of others if it doesn't somehow pertain to them.
I am looking for:
Someone who loves music, who is kind, who enjoys the simple things in life. Someone who enjoys having a few drinks now and then, or trying new things, or is content with just hanging out at home relaxing. Someone overly eccentric and off the wall. Or someone chill, cool, calm and collective. Someone goofy. Someone wonderful.
My funniest life experience:
I used to do a lot of dumb things. I made out with a co-worker in a dough proofer/oven thing. I once quit a job at fast food by jumping out of the window. I once gave my lunch monitor the finger in High School and she literally chased me around the hallways until I duck and hid in a bathroom for ten minutes until someone ratted me out. Bastards. I once ate 2 lbs of jalepenos for a bet. I made 5 dollars. Ahh, the silly things I used to do.
Cool Movies:
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is my favorite movie. I also love Pan's Labyrinth, Marie Antionette,Once! The Virgin Suicides, Children of Men, Stranger than Fiction, the Lord of the Rings trilogy, There Will be Blood, V for Vendetta, Kill Bill, Heima, Harry Potter, the Fountain, Shaun of the Dead, The Dark Knight, Anchorman, Pineapple Express, Superbad, Juno, Almost Famous, Winter Passing, etc.
My Favorite Groups are:
As for musical taste, my absolute favorite artist is Regina Spektor. Some other favorites include: Margot and the Nuclear So and Sos, The Replacements, The Gathering, Tom Waits, Ryan Adams, Porcupine Tree, Heartless stards, The Black Keys, Ane Brun, Gemma Hayes, Bon Iver, The National, Low, Trespassers William, Ida, Ida Maria, Carissa's Weird, Grand Archives, Florence and the Machine, Metric, Gojira, Opeth, Sigur Ros, the Cardigans, This Will Destroy You, The Swell Season, Rainer Maria, Rilo Kiley, Rachael Yamagata, Cat Power, Against Me! Iron and Wine etc.
I am looking for a personality like:
Honestly, I've always had difficulty opening up to people quickly. But I open up a lot quicker to people who like be goofy. I think humor is the greatest shell breaker, and the most successful relationship I was ever in was because we were both two goofy, strange individuals that made other people think "wow, those two are completely out there", and I love that, I can relate to that. Not saying things shouldn't be taken seriously, because there's a right time for all of that, but I think some people take life too seriously.because having fun and laughing until you can no longer breathe are things that really make us feel alive.
Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
Yes. I'm feeling lazy to elaborate.
Willingness to meet others from boM:
I'm very willing if it feels like the right thing to do. I have met one person off the internet before, and we actually became really close before something happened. It can work out.
Are you ready to start from scratch?
I'm totally and completely void of any excess baggage at this moment. i'm looking for a new beginning.
My typical day:
I'm Dave, that's my name, and that's one thing I am sure of. As for everything else, I'm pretty clueless. I still haven't found my calling in life, and I am a victim of a mundane routine which has left me unadventurous and unexciting. I think it's time to change that.
My goals in life aren't defined yet, but I know I don't want to spend the rest of my life in the confines of northeast Ohio. I want to see the world. I want to travel and I don't want to be tied down by the routines of life. The thought of falling into the rut of working 9-5 everyday for the rest of my life scars the sh*t out of me. I don't want to worry about the petty things, I just want to live. People put too much importance and stress on such seemingly insignificant things, and it saddens me.
I need someone to wake me up from this daze, and to help me achieve this. I've always been a very reclusive, slow to open up individual but when I do I am a very kind-hearted and warm individual that's never screwed anyone over and don't ever plan on doing so.
I like the occasion trip to the hookah bar (though I haven't been there in ages), listening to music at basically all hours of the day, being an insomniac, watching Cleveland sports much to my dismay, driving the long way everywhere even when it's entirely unneeded, eating excessive amounts of pasta, watching the Office or 30 Rock, playing my guitar (poorly), spending hours online doing nothing remotely productive, taking long walks in the park, tuning out my surroundings, being shamefully awkward in all social situations, and going to shows.
I just want a girl who is beautiful in more than just appearance. I want a girl that can make me a better person, one that who loves to smile and has a beautiful heart. :-)
My Wish List Includes:
I've always wanted to drop my life at this moment completely on a dime, packing a few things I may need, and just driving without any real direction as far as I can go until I run out of money.then getting a job wherever I am temporarily until I can leave again.and just continue that journey discovering new places, meeting new people, actually experiencing life instead of this mundane existence I put myself through everyday. I'd also like to visit Iceland. I want to climb a mountain, or many mountains! I want to someday travel and attend the World Cup and the Olympics! There's actually so much I'd love to do someday.so much I can't even fathom it all right now.
Religion Is Not Important to me in relationships.
I'm not Materialistic.
I Smoke Sometimes.
I Drink Sometimes.
I Like Pets.
I Like To Travel.
Sometimes I am an active person.
Sometimes I spend long hours at work.
Sometimes I am a spontaneous person.
Friends Are Important to me.
I Like Competitive Partners.
Sometimes I like clubs/bars.
My life is somewhat stressfull.
I sometimes try to stay in shape.
I want to get Married.
Sometimes I feel that I would like to have kids.
Sometimes I can be stubborn.
Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
Sometimes Sex is important to me.
Sometimes it's important to have a clean house.
Note: Bold & Larger Text Represent More Important Qualities To This User.
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