My requests are simple. I don't want the fancy houses, new cars or expensive jewelry, I want you to give yourself to me. But sometimes that is the hardest thing to give, isn't it?
Yes, my heart has been broken and I have learned alot - about myself and about people in general. I have also learned that no one should have to pay for the sins of their predecessors.
I ask that you be honest, genuine, straightforward, loyal, faithful and kind. These are the qualities that in all or in part have been lacking from my relationships in the past. The qualities that were lacking caused a great deal of pain and could not be repaired or overcome. To be honest, sometimes I ask myself why I am putting myself back out there, vulnerable, to possibly be hurt again.
The answer, however, is easy. I am always hopeful.
I am strong, smart and fiesty, high energy, vibrant and pretty gosh darn funny (I crack myself up sometimes!). I know when to be a lady, but I like to have fun, be silly and let my hair down. I am rather shy, can be intense and passionate, have an abundance of energy and love to laugh.
I tend to tell it like it is and if something isn't working I will acknowledge it, say "can we fix this?" and am willing to compromise, but I will never settle again.
I am a giver and this has gotten me into trouble in the past. I believe in mutual giving. I want no more emotional vampires in my life.
I am also very sensual. I experience the world through my senses. I thrive on things that arouse my senses and my intellect. This is the best way to get to my heart. I love physical contact, be it touching, hugging, kissing, etc. I also am very visual, love scents that take me back to special times and sounds that I can connect to love, happiness, positivity and peace. I love good food, wine and fresh foods.
Oh, and I'm a ROCKSTAR!!!!
I am looking for:
I want to find someone who is gentle, kind and who can accept me for who I am. He should have a good sense of humor, like to have fun and not mind if I just charm the pants off him! LOL
A relaxed personality, stable, balanced is very important.
Also, I have 2 teenagers at home. They are two of the coolest people I know, they think I am a rockstar and we are a tight unit. Anyone whom I accept into my life must be able to handle the fact that I am a mom. He must realize that just because I date him, my kids won't disappear. We are very close and do a lot together. Anyone I am with will be welcome to join us.
My funniest life experience:
Oh, I have tons of them! You would have to read my blogs! As me about shipping a cat.
Cool Movies:
I like lots of movies. I guess a couple of my favorites would be Midnight Run, Dave, the Indiana Jones movies and similar flicks.
My Favorite Groups are:
Again, my tastes are varied. I like rock, classic rock, the crooners, piano, you name it. Right now I am listening to Three Days Grace, but I like Papa Roach, Korn, Pink, Meriweather and others.
I am looking for a personality like:
I am very drawn to men who are gentle, quiet and have a good sense of humor. I have always been somewhat of a misfit - very different from "other girls."
I need someone who is accepting of me as I am and who is not interested in changing me.
Are you willing to compromise in difficult times and situations?
Of course I will compromise. I am usually the first to propose a compromise. I will meet you halfway if you are willing to meet me halfway. If both parties are working toward a resolution the chances of failure are nominal.
Willingness to meet others from boM:
I would be willing to meet someone who was kind, funny and respectful. For instance, don't send me a letter describing in intricate detail the things you want to do (sexually). I am just not into that. If you have the ability to look and think with parts of your anatomy that do not reside in the nether regions, then I would like to talk to you. :-)
Are you ready to start from scratch?
I am turning over a new leaf! Let's get started!
My typical day:
I would like to meet fun people. Dating or just hanging out, whatever works is great with me. I don't believe in forcing anything or rushing anything; just let nature take its course. I am not a one night stand type of girl and I am not looking for a roll in the hay.
I am just your typical 6 foot redhead, fun, a little fiesty and smart.Oh, and I love that happy, surprised, shocked look on your face when I say or do something you didn't expect. :-)
I am a simple girl who doesn't mind getting dirty. I am a rough and tumble sort, pretty goofy, spontaneous, loving, quick witted and direct.
You should know that I am extremely sensual. I love to touch, am very physically affectionate, am very visual, love various scents that remind me of fond times and special people, and enjoy audible sensations like music, heartbeats and even the slow, rhythmic breathing of someone next to me. I love experiencing the flavors of good foods from fresh strawberries to lobster - and everything in between. My life is a succession of not only living, but of experiencing the world through these senses - the sights, sounds, tastes, smells and touches of everything around me.
I am the girl who values a single flower you pick from your garden over the bouquet you sent from the florist because I know you picked that single flower just for me.
I am the girl who values your handwritten love note over a commercial card because I know that the words came from your heart.
I have come to understand that the really important things in life are extra long hugs, passionate kisses, shared laughs, secret jokes just between the two of us, holding hands and being someone's greatest ally because you know they are yours. I value these things over the expensive gifts and meaningless tokens. Those things will tarnish, age, get lost or be destroyed. However, those quality, intangible things that you share with another human, the love, the passion, the hope, the trust, will remain locked in your heart forever - nothing and no one can take that from you.
See, I'm a simple girl.
My Videos/Music/Other Content:
Religion is sometimes important to me in relationships.
I can be materialistic at times.
I Don't Smoke.
I Drink Sometimes.
I Like Pets.
I Like To Travel.
I am an Active Person.
I Don't spend long hours at Work.
I Am a Spontaneous Person.
Friends Are Important to me.
Sometimes I enjoy having a competitive partner.
I Don't Like Clubs/Bars.
I'm not that Stressed.
I Try to stay in Shape.
I sometimes want to get married.
I Don't Want to have Kids.
I Am Not a Stubborn Person.
Sometimes I enjoy going to the movies.
Sex Is Important to me.
I like a Clean Place.
Note: Bold & Larger Text Represent More Important Qualities To This User.
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