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To start with I am a 43 year old Single father. I have a 16 year old son and a 12 year old daughter. I am a family guy and would like to find a woman that values the family as well. I am pretty easy going. I don’t like drama or games. I don’t play them. Life is to short to waste on games. I have been married once for right at 10 years. I have been divorced 9 years as of this past January. I have seen ups and downs throughout my life. I’ve made mistakes but I would like to think I learned from them. I have learned over the years you can survive anything and I do mean anything. We all have right? Probably for different reasons and out comes but life goes on. My point is I am not looking for perfection. I believe there has to be an attraction between two people. Without the physical side its hard to get things going. Once things get started it less on the looks and more to the personality. I would love to find someone that can discuss what she wants. Stand up for what she believes and not cave just because she doesn’t want to tick the guy off. LOL Its very important to me she puts as much into the relationship as she wants out of it. I believe a relationship is worth the work to lay the foundation and build it brick by brick. I want someone that looks for things to work out. Can’t stand those that always look for the things to go wrong…. If you look for them you will find them. I am a good guy looking for a good woman. If life allows me to I would like to remarry some day. Not next week by any means but some day. I am a TAC engineer here in the Metroplex. I love my job and very well liked by the people I work with. Probably one of two jobs I will always rate at the top. I have been in tele over 21 years. I have seen it through its hay days as well as the layoff and countless bankruptcies. I have made it through the bad times. Now I am ready for the good times. I would like to find someone that is happy with whom they are. One thing is people posting pics from 10 years ago. Or prior to having kids… To me when people are dishonest about who or what they are, they are setting expectations higher then they deliver. If you’re not happy with whom you are then how can anyone else be happy with who you are? My pictures are recent with the exception I have a goatee and very short hair but could return to shaving my head sometime. I won’t lie to impress you. I won’t tell you what you want to hear just to get what I want. It’s all self defeating. I am not interested in chatting, emailing, or talking on the phone for months. That’s all fine and fun as long as we are doing things together and learning about each other as we go. I am not one to date multiple people, never have been. I have never cheated or abused anyone in any form. If you’re the cheating type please move on. I won’t have it done to me again and I won’t do it to anyone else. People that cheat on the ones they care about really have serious issues. I am a good guy that will do anything to help someone out. I know if you take the time to get to know me you will like me. Well if I am not for you then I wish you luck. If we communicate at all at least just say hi. I won’t be rude to anyone so please don’t be rude to me. For those that want to chat with a smile I use the same screen name everywhere.