I am the one you have been looking for - 45 male in Indianapolis, Indiana

I am 44 yrs. old. I am 6' tall, weigh around 210#, brownish gray hair, blueish grn eyes, average build. I have all my hair and teeth and proud of that. What makes me happy is the love of a good woman and family. I need nothing else but that to make me happy. That is how I grew up and what I believe in. I have two sons Blake 10, soon to be 11, and Landan 12. They are my best friends and we do a lot together and I also have joint custody of them. To be with me is to be with my kids. My ex lives about 3 blocks away and we have a good working relationship for the most part. As far as what I do for a living will be told to you if and when we ever meet possibly. Too long for me to type. I enjoy ALL types of activities and events, indoor outdoor, all sporting events, dancing, water, sun, symphony, concerts, anything and everything as long as I am with the person that I want to be with, my best friend, you. I guess it would be easier for me to say what I know that I do not like and that is to shop. It is not the shopping that bothers me so much, it is the looking at stuff that you have no intention of buying, unless it is in the lingerie section...... I want a woman to communicate with. I specifically want communication about feelings, needs, wants, hopes, dreams, problems,solutions, and all other things that can make a relationship work. I also want communication about expectations and plans. I would rather put things on the table than sweep them under the rug. I just want a woman who can communicate, listen, and respond. Like women, I also want a partner who will commit to the relationship for the long haul. I want a woman who wants fidelity and values it as a cornerstone of building a relationship. I want a woman who enjoys what life has to offer. I want a woman who knows how to play, who is not afraid to make a fool of herself, who lives her passions. I want a woman of creative,intellectual, playful substance. I want a woman who will care deeply about my needs and wants without losing herself in the process. I would like to get married again, but I am in no hurry to do it. There is so much more to me and my life that I want and will share with the right person. That is why I act so quickly in trying to meet someone that I am interested in, because I do not want to waste another minute with the wrong person. I want to spend the rest of my life with the right one. Say hello, lets get this party started.